Script for marriage combinations in Ukrainian. Traditional and playful wedding in Ukrainian style - decor photo and scenario. The rite that ends the wedding
The wedding cortege drives up to the restaurant. On the porch, the newlyweds are met by: host, parents of the bride and groom, guests. In the center are mothers, along the edges of the father, and guests in a semicircle. The mother of the bride holds an icon in her hands, the mother of the groom holds a loaf with a salt shaker on a painted towel, the father holds two glasses of champagne. The toastmaster distributes to all guests a handful of sweets, wheat (millet, rice), small money.
Toastmaster: We meet our "young", may God carry them in their arms!
Guests shower the bride and groom with sweets, wheat and money, which symbolizes good luck in life, beautiful children and wealth. Then, to thunderous applause, the newlyweds approach their parents.
Mother of the bride: I bless you for this union and may your family be strong and friendly! He crosses the newlyweds with an icon and kisses the bride and groom.
Groom's mother: According to an old custom, so that your house is a full bowl, try bread and salt.
Toastmaster: First you need to salt the loaf. Whoever salts more will play the solo part in the family! Now break the loaf. Whoever breaks more will be the head of the family! Now bite off the piece that you broke off. Whoever bites off the most will be the first ... (after a pause) yield in all disagreements!
After the "young" tasted the bread and salt, the toastmaster or folklore ensemble they sing the song “My Charm”, and dads bring glasses of champagne to the newlyweds (the father of the bride to the groom, the father of the groom to the bride). The newlyweds drink champagne and throw glasses over their left shoulder for good luck. Glasses are broken, and a flurry of applause is heard. Then the toastmaster invites everyone to go to the center of the hall and asks the guests to congratulate the newlyweds and present flowers.
The toastmaster invites the newlyweds and guests to the table and talks about the seating rules for wedding table(the table is usually placed with the letter "P" or the letter "T").
Toastmaster: Dear friends, I ask everyone to the festive table. At the head of the table sit the "young", next to the witnesses, then parents, grandparents and close relatives, then friends and acquaintances.
After the newlyweds and guests have taken their places, the toastmaster continues:
Dear friends and guests, I ask you to fill your glasses and draw your attention to our young couple.
In Russia, this is how it is, at a wedding, guests drink wine.
Let's support, having gathered here together, the custom of the first Russians
For the happiness of the bride and groom, let's raise our first glass!
Tamada together with the guests: Advice, yes love!
Guests: Bitter, bitter!
Toastmaster: At our celebration (wedding) there are people to whom our newlyweds literally owe their lives. These wonderful people led the newlyweds along the path of life, worried about them and shared joys and failures. These people are the parents of our "young". And I am pleased to give the floor to the groom's parents - the patronymic names of the parents.
Groom's parents toast.
And now I am pleased to give the floor to the parents of the bride - the patronymic names of the parents.
Musical pause.
Toastmaster: Many wedding ceremonies and traditions change over time. Literally some 20-30 years ago, everything was different. And in our hall there are people with great life and family experience, these are the grandparents of our “young”. It is to them that I now want to give the floor.
wedding toast grandparents.
Toastmaster: After the wedding, the newlyweds often have disagreements about who will do what at home. To prevent these disputes, the distribution of family responsibilities will now take place.
The toastmaster invites the newlyweds to go to the center of the hall, where there are 10 balloons, in which 9 pieces of paper are invested with the duties of "young", an example:
I will give birth to children
I will raise children
I will make money
I will spend money
I will drive the car
I will clean the apartment
I will bring coffee to bed,
I will wash the dishes
I will go on vacation.
100 USD is placed in the tenth ball, whoever gets this ball will be the family financier. Also, there is a tradition that these $100 should be kept and sealed in a frame, and they will bring good luck in prosperity and in the family business.
The newlyweds take turns piercing the balloons and reading out their family obligations.
Dance of the newlyweds - the toastmaster invites the newlyweds to the first a wedding dance. After the dance of the “young”, the toastmaster announces the dance of the witnesses and the dance of the parents.
Dance break.
Tamada invites the newlyweds and guests to the table.
Tamada announces the start of the official ceremony of congratulations and presenting gifts to the newlyweds. This rite in the common people is called "solemn detour".
Guests come up to a young family, congratulate the bride and groom, give a gift and raise their glasses to the happiness and health of the newlyweds. There is also another version of the “ceremonial round”, when witnesses with a tray in their hands go around the table clockwise, while everyone is presented with a glass of wine and collect gifts.
Before the musical break, in order to prepare the guests for dancing, the toastmaster holds a competition, which consists in the following: the host of the program invites 3-4 pairs of participants and gives each pair one balloon three-quarters inflated. A pair of participants, without the help of hands, pinches the ball between themselves. Cheerful music sounds, for example "lambada". The task is to make the balloon explode during the dance.
Dance break.
Tamada invites everyone to the table.
Tamada provides 2-3 toasts at will.
Toastmaster: Dear newlyweds, the sages say that love brings together, this is true. But, in order not to be unfounded, I invite you to the center of the hall and ask you to move away from each other by 10 steps. Now I ask each of you in turn to take steps towards meeting your betrothed and betrothed, while calling each other affectionate words.
As the newlyweds join in an embrace, the toastmaster proclaims: Love truly unites!
Dance break.
The host invites everyone to the table and announces the culmination of the wedding program. Solemn music is heard, and they bring into the hall a wedding cake.
The newlyweds cut the cake, try it themselves and treat the guests.
Tamada talks about the tradition of the wedding bouquet and garter, and invites the bride and groom to the center of the hall. Then, the toastmaster invites unmarried girls to the center of the hall, it is to them that the bride throws a wedding bouquet, and after that unmarried men who fight for possession of the wedding garter. According to tradition, those who caught the bouquet and garter will meet their love within a year and then play a wedding.
And the wedding evening ends with the official speech of the newlyweds, in which they thank their parents, friends and relatives that they helped in organizing (holding) the wedding and came on this significant day to congratulate the newlyweds.
Wedding scenario.
A new family has arrived
And they are not happier today.
I invite them to the hall to the guests,
We welcome young people.
Young people come in.
Dear newlyweds! A rainbow on a wedding day has always been a harbinger of happiness, kindness, prosperity.
We salute the bride and groom,
We wish you good luck on your journey!
Under the rainbow of family happiness, we ask
You young people go through!
May it encourage and give you hope
Each color will protect from evil.
And let every color become your favorite,
Good brings you a hundred years.
RED. Let love intoxicate you with red wine,
The tenderness of scarlet roses.
And tirelessly warms the blood
Even in bitter cold.
PINK. So that you do not get tired of life,
So that the sparkle does not fade in the eyes,
Take a minute and take a peek
In your pink dreams.
GREEN. May the freshness of spring not leave you,
Let the nightingale sing to you.
Let in your hearts, scattering with flowers,
Spring lives forever.
YELLOW. Yellow will warm you with a sunny color,
Hastens to give you warmth.
And you will only be left with a little
It's warm to keep.
BLUE. peace over head
Gives you blue
So that your children grow up carefree,
Peacefully under the roof of the native.
VIOLET. The color purple is an eternal mystery,
It beckons with its mystery.
You are a constant secret to each other
And a permanent magnet.
WHITE. The color of nobility, purity of relationships,
White is today's color.
May you be able to keep it
For many decades.
Throw up the champagne
For the happiness of the young
Fill them with radiance
Sparkling, golden!
CHAMPAGNE.
Expensive _________________________________________.
I ask you to drink this glass alone for two as a sign that from now on you will share all sorrows and joys in half.
BROKEN THE GLASS.
So be it, let no evil dare,
Enter your home and stand at the head.
May happiness bring to your house
The bread that is baked with love.
We always meet the young with a baked loaf,
You try his piece of your happiness.
For joy and happiness for many years, accept the blessing of your parents.
Newlyweds! Break off a piece of bread and season with salt. You have the opportunity last time annoy each other. Yes, salt more!
Now swap pieces.
And now the way for the couple -
May only happiness await in life!
Come on, hurry up!
The wedding feast is calling you!
The guests are seated
Make yourself comfortable, dear guests, because a wedding is a long process. Choose a more cheerful neighbor, but a prettier neighbor. Men - closer to a snack, women - to a drink.
Attention! 3 times. At the wedding, every fifth commander. Count in numerical order!
Well done! Get up! You are the commanders of festive feasts, your duties include: pour, pour, do not forget your neighbors and do not dress yourself.
Dear guests! He gathered us all here today, for this festive table the most honored, most beloved holiday in Russia. His name is wedding! So let's start our wedding.
Let the warmest, most cordial words be addressed to the bride and groom.
Let the wedding "Bitter" sound louder than a thousand fireworks!
It's time for us to drink
To the newlyweds, a friendly "Hurray"!
And it's time to honor these minutes
Hear the explosive anniversary fireworks!
JUBILEE SALUTE
Well, the guests stood up together,
The glasses were cheerfully raised,
Let's wish them much happiness
Let's say "Congratulations" three times!
Our first toast, friends, for our couple,
For the happiness and love of these eyes!
And we'll only drink
When the mouths merge together.
BITTERLY!
So that they were full of happiness,
Drain the glasses to the bottom!
DRINK.
Dear guests! Dear dads and mothers, brothers, sisters, grandmothers, grandfathers, aunts and uncles!
Friends and girlfriends and other friends!
Greetings to everyone who came, flew in and just got there,
And he found his place at the table!
Today at the table are the most devoted and dear people of the young family, therefore, let me address you - “Dear friends!”
From ancient times, from forgotten legends
The wedding ceremony comes to us -
On the hands, as a sign of boundless love
Wedding rings are on fire.
And teardrops shine on the eyelashes
Mothers crying with happiness
Pride in the faces of fathers
For the fate of their big children.
And wish happiness to the newlyweds
Old and new friends
And we are sure that the marriage is successful,
Far and near relatives.
So raise your drunken cup
For the union of two loving hearts,
For their pure, holy love,
For the radiance of golden rings.
Now, bon appetit everyone!
By the way, ladies! If you are afraid to break the diet, drink another 50 grams, they are sure to dull the feeling of fear.
EAT.
BE READY! (for guests)
Dear guests, are you ready for the wedding?
We, friends, are together today
Let's say a lot of kind words
To the groom, his bride... Be ready!..
We congratulate the young
We have fun again and again.
Let's dance, let's play. Be ready!..
And part with gifts
Sparing no wallets
And walk up to the glory, Be ready ...
Get ready to sing songs loudly
Spare no voices
And shout more often "Bitterly" !,
Be ready!..
And I recall some features of the wedding evening!
1. Friends are known in food! Ate by myself, feed a neighbor!
2. A quickly drunk glass is not considered poured. Drink less, but more!
3. Grabbed by the chest - say something! Each of you can congratulate the newlyweds in person, cash and non-cash!
4. A large glass of mouth rejoices! As people say - the soul is the measure, if only there was a peaceful atmosphere!
5. Only steal a bride once! For the second - a fine of 25 thousand rubles!
6. The chairs of the newlyweds today have a special magic! Whoever sits on them will not fall into crisis. But remember! Magic is a great thing, but not free! Sat on a chair - pay money! Dachshund - 500 rubles!
7. Dear guests! Be nails! The highlight of our wedding program!
Sing, dance, play, get prizes as a keepsake!
In a word, easy in fun, hard in a hangover!
Everyone good mood and sweet alcohol intoxication!
wedding report
KALEIDOSCOPE. (acquaintance game)
Dear friends! let me introduce myself
Those who are in charge of the wedding.
I'll start with myself, my name is Natalia.
I will lead the entire wedding program.
And my partner is known to all Gubakha.
_____________________ is our best DJ!
We give ovations to the first ladies,
What is the bride and groom - mothers!
Let the young dads get up
we applaud for them.
In a kaleidoscope family motley
Newlywed sisters fit in!
And you have to give it your due
Who are the bride and groom brothers!
Not for fame, for honor
Newlyweds stand uncle!
And we don't mind welcoming
If the newlyweds will rise aunts!
Let's play together ok
We are beloved grandmother!
Let them stand up to be seen
Established family witnesses!
Do we have godparents?
We applaud them now.
We would like to see more
Nephews of the newlyweds!
I'll just say, without further ado:
Applause - for friends!
And there are among you, please answer,
Heroes of celebration neighbors?
Let's clap our hands
For all the guests, good for you!
APPLAUSE.
And I want to check whose half of the table is the loudest, the most friendly.
GAME "For this you need to drink"
- The wedding is already in full swing,
Let's start the fun.
- Today we have a holiday,
We all know about it.
- Praises addressed to you,
We compose in chorus.
- With love to the young,
We give gifts.
- Happy days, patience,
We wish you more.
- Come to the golden
We wish you a wedding.
DRINK
And now I propose to find out who came to the wedding for what purpose.
Dear guests, guess any odd number from 1 to 9. Guessed?
1 - these are the guests who came to show themselves.
3 - these guests came to give gifts
5 - find a new sexual partner
7 - came to drink and eat
9 - and it was just boring to sit at home.
ASTROPROGNOSIS.
Dear our guests!
I suggest you slightly open the veil of the future. Let's try to find out what awaits each of us on this anniversary, and tomorrow we will check your forecast.
1. Most of all will sing
2. Dance
3. Drink
4. Give number 5 shoes
6. Will gladly give number 7
8. The most beautiful
9. The most smiling
10. The hungriest
11. The loudest will shout "Congratulations"
12. Eats everything that is left
13. Shake hands with everyone present
14. At 22.00 he will fall asleep
15. Will wake up at 22.30
16. Now kiss the neighbor on the left
17. Kiss the neighbor on the right
18. Kiss a neighbor on both the left and right
19. Shake hands with everyone present after 2 hours
20. Will lend without return
21. Tomorrow will invite everyone to improve their health
22. Will come to him with a case of beer
23. Now he will drink to the health of all those present
24. Kiss the hero of the day
25. The most incendiary
26. After the feast they will carry home
27. After 3 hours, he will say that he is cool
28. After 2.5 hours, he will say that he sneezed at everyone
29. After 3 hours, he won’t say anything
30. Give everyone a belly dance
31. Today most of all will smoke
32. Not one will go home
33. Will be a super star today.
Us plus minus 32.
Is everyone ready for the toast?
Yes.
There is no reason for concern.
All men agree.
Well, women in response
Do you have vodka in your glasses?
Not!
Everyone is ready for the toast
The guests are there.
Bitterly! Groom and bride!
DRINK.
If there is a veil on her, she called the guests.
He sits in a place of honor
So, her name is BRIDE
If the boy is at the parade,
In your best holiday attire.
But has a timid look
But he doesn't look at girls
Only one got quiet
So, to call him ... GROOM!
Take a look, guests, at the red place!
Look where the bride and groom are!
She is smart, and a prankster, and just a beautiful girl,
The whole meat processing plant is very proud of her.
And he's a guy, young and smart.
He's in perfect order.
And the whole Metastroy is pleased with them,
He deserves our beauty.
Both are young guys
The lips of our children are dear.
And today they have united, united in one family.
And fate brought them together for a reason.
Lena and Andrey are the best couple!
And young people at the wedding can’t really eat or drink!
And now a mini-exam is announced for them!
QUESTIONS TO THE YOUNG.
Husband questions:
1. How will you peel the potatoes?
But in vain. Better than an electric razor. The thin cut and pre-massage give it an irreplaceable taste.
2. Do you drink coffee in the morning?
Correctly! The one who drinks coffee in the morning does not get tired all day ... help his wife with the housework.
3. Will there be a division of labor in your family or will you do everything together?
Correctly! Take on the honorable mission of earning money, and leave the less noble, but necessary one - to spend it - to your wife.
4. Can you: compare your wife to a musical instrument?
Yes, the wife is not a harp, after playing - you can’t hang it on your back.
For wife:
1. What do you like more: bread or cake?
Strive for your husband to be bread, not cake. The cake is delicious, but gets boring quickly. However, remember that man is not fed with bread alone.
2. Will you always tell your husband the truth?
Correctly! Be moderately truthful and do not demand more from your husband, as they say - the truth is good, but happiness is better.
3. Will you always tell your husband the price of the things you bought?
Correctly! The husband does not need to know the true price. This will keep him nervous system from shocks.
4. Will you always obey your husband?
Correctly! Cross the street where your husband wants, but take him where you want.
She was a bride, she became a wife,
And took possession of such an eagle,
Ringed, confused,
Well, serve him right, serve him right
And he noticed a swan,
Did not miss her, predator, beast,
I know the husband will be friendly with his wife,
What is left for him now.
Live together, newlyweds,
Improve your nest
Bring forth princesses and champions,
And we all drink together for you!
DRINK.
DIVINATION.
Traffic jam - a big booze awaits at the holiday
Candy - there will be an unusually tasty treat
Chewing gum - the holiday will be very long
Matches - the holiday will be full of bright moments and incendiary entertainment
Condom - the guest will be sexually preoccupied
Now let's greet each other.
Let's cheer up.
We raised our hands together
Waved with the right hand.
Well, the left hand goes down while
On the knee. Not yours, but your neighbor's.
Right hand hot
We are the neighbor's shoulder
We embrace indecently.
Did you like it? Fine!
Swayed left, right.
You're doing great, bravo!
Pulled up all the stomach,
We move our hands forward.
Low - low everyone bent down,
Unbent, stretched.
Everyone stroked their belly
Smiled all over.
We will push the neighbor
And lightly pinch.
Have you lifted your spirits?
We played great.
Now good people
Clap your hands together!
Let's shout "Congratulations" to the newlyweds!
And we raise our glasses again!
DRINK
And again applause to our young people!
In love and wonderful! And the most expensive!
We wish you a happy life
So be happy friends!
Now let's check the capacity of the hall
Shout to the young "Hurrah!"
Let the wine sparkle in the glass
Let the blood play in your veins.
Let us be bitter, let us be sweet,
You - advice, but love!
We wish the newlyweds happiness
And shout "Congratulations" three times!
So that the wine does not make the guests bitter,
It needs to be sweetened.
And the newlyweds kiss so much
As long as they ask for it!
Bitterly! Bitterly! Bitterly!
Well, the newlyweds are kissing, and everyone else is sitting and licking their lips!
Let's fix this mess! After all, today is the universal day of love!
KISS RELAY.
Let's fill our glasses again
And together let's drink to LOVE!
TOAST FOR LOVE.
But here our wedding noise subsides,
It's time to get up from the tables
After all, the sounds of beautiful music
We are invited to dance.
But the first dance will be theirs,
Lovers, dear ones.
FIRST DANCE.
Guests, we can’t sit indefinitely,
DANCE BREAK.
Today you can not be sad and gloomy!
Today should be light and bright.
And if Andrei married Lena,
So he's the luckiest of all.
In a life where there are many and doubts,
Only the one who knows how to love is happy.
You can live without wealth and money,
But without love it is impossible to live.
Today you can not be sadly jealous!
To hell with separation, betrayal and evil.
And if Elena goes for Andrey,
So she's the luckiest of all!
BITTERLY!
SO LET'S DRINK A CUP
FOR OUR GOOD COUPLE
DRINK
Today is a special day for young people
From now on, they will go the same way.
Go about the first wedding without regret
And on the way meeting anniversaries.
I would like to wish young people
More than once they celebrate a wedding together,
But know wedding anniversaries
They have their names.
Let's tell these two lovers
What is the wedding day today? GREEN
And in a year? calico
And in five? WOODEN
And after ten? PINK
What about 25? SILVER
Every wedding has its time
Who will be honored here
To be generals at these weddings?
To find out I ask you all
Do not be lazy, in their places
Find treasured hearts.
Take a closer look at the chairs
Found hearts, come out!
Here are the generals before you,
And who what you look.
And I want to ask you:
"Ready to have a wedding?"
Entertain guests with toasts
Sing and of course dance
Are you ready to pass the test?
I have a task for you.
Sing a song for us
Let's see who is the best among you.
"THE BREMEN TOWN MUSICIANS"
There is nothing better in the world
Than to walk now at this wedding!
How beautiful the bride and groom are!
We wish them a happy life!
Your guests are cheerful, not drunk,
Guys are remote giants,
Russian beauties girls,
So let's sing and have fun.
May your life be as full of joy as this glass! So let's drink it to the bottom!
DRINK.
A wonderful event happened today - on our good blue planet
a new family was born!
Two more hearts joined together!
Two more people found each other!
Let's wish: Elena and Andrey in this happiest for
their day - endless love, tenderness for each other, mutual understanding!
And let the sun shine brighter today. May this October day
will be the beginning of creating a strong and friendly family!
We are happy to congratulate the young!
There is no better couple in the world!
Live happily and richly
Not 100, but 200 years!
Let in the many years of noise of life
All louder - the voices of children!
May the door always be open
For both family and friends!
Meet difficulties you steadfastly
And win them always!
Let them shout to you today<Горько!>
Like no one ever!
Bitterly!
Bow to the guests of the glorious bride!
So that our beautiful bride
You were able to enjoy.
And now you only need
Everyone whom the groom greeted,
Please get up from your seats
Groom to the best
You were able to enjoy.
And now you only need
Shout "Bitter! Bitterly! Bitterly!"
Who wishes the couple happiness
Please get up from your seats
To the bride and groom
You could admire.
And now we only ask
Shout "Bitter! Bitterly! Bitterly!"
Well, guests, do not be stingy!
Share your generosity!
Our royal wedding sparkles brightly!
It's time for you to give gifts!
Treasures are allowed to open!
There are so many treasures that it is not counted!
Treasures - heartfelt words,
Their head is spinning!
For you, newlyweds, everything for you!
Raise the glass higher
Yes, wish young people happiness!
We start the show
Wedding gifts!
Presentation of gifts
A new house is being created
The house is big from small.
It's built brick by brick
Yes, stronger, isn't it?
How will construction go?
Never seen
It all depends very much on
Builders skills.
Here you go, friends
The path unbeaten,
Hello new family
New story!
Here's a new album for you
Imprint in it
And look later
Everything you can.
It's fun to walk together
bright spaces,
Start creating
New history.
PHOTO ALBUM DELIVERY.
Dear Andrey and Elena! Lot good words you will hear today in your address, but I suggest you find out who and for what purpose actually came to your wedding.
GAME "I CAME TO THE WEDDING".
1. I did not want to cook dinner at home.
2. They wept and begged me for it.
3. I simply had no other choice.
4. For me, they are the dearest and most beloved people on Earth.
5. Tomorrow I want to borrow money from them.
6. I have long dreamed of having a brotherhood drink with them.
7. I promised them that I would never reveal this secret.
8. I have long dreamed of talking to them in an informal setting.
9. Today I have nowhere to sleep.
10. They have so many tasty things here!
11. Without me, this holiday would not have taken place.
12. It is impossible to resist the charm of the groom.
13. They promised me an unforgettable evening.
14. I really want to invite all their relatives to my birthday.
15. I promised them that after the guests left, I would wash all the dishes for them.
16. Today I decoded.
17. Hiding from the police.
18. I need an alibi for my wife.
19. I secretly love the bride.
20. The groom is a magnificent man.
21. I want to find a new sexual partner.
22. They are the most reliable friends.
23. They always have fun.
24. I want to find new friends.
25. I really wanted to drink vodka.
26. I'm tired of being alone.
27. I have long wanted to show my new outfit.
28. The groom is the wisest man in Gubakha.
29. I want to kiss a beautiful bride.
30. I haven't sung drinking songs for a long time.
THE TEST OF THE YOUNG.
Comic test "You are like a beast".
Affectionate like...
Strong like...
Protective like...
Authoritative as...
Independent as...
Smiling like...
Neat as...
Loving like...
Bold as...
Handsome as...
In transportation, like...
With relatives...
With work colleagues...
In a shop like...
At home like...
In a cafe or restaurant…
With the boss...
AT friendly company as…
In bed like...
In the doctor's office...
Let life be like the blue sky
Will pour light into the house,
What are you beautiful -
Bride with groom.
We will drink to the bottom -
Was, oh, was not -
For the white swan
For the glorious eagle!
For your happiness with splashes,
For joy over the edge
For devotion, for sincerity,
For your family paradise.
For a little third
We will drink with a dream
So that we all meet together
Golden wedding!
She is an unseen beauty
He is dashing like a hussar ...
Oh how we envy you.
Bride and groom!
FOR THE YOUNG!
SHOUTING.
"Kiss the bridegroom"
Oh what a wedding
brought us together!
At the huge table
There was room for everyone
Guests: Tili-tili dough, kiss the bridegroom!
You won't find a better couple!
We'll tell you without flattery.
So live well
Friendly, honor by four!
Joys and hardships
You meet together.
And so to old age,
About two hundred years...
Guests: Tili-tili dough, kiss the bridegroom!
- Dear guests! There is such an aphorism: “Gold is tested with fire, a woman with gold, and a man with a woman!” Let's try to verify the truth of this statement.
Questions:
1. Zolotko, will you give me huge bouquets of roses for every holiday?
2. Honey, can you ever believe that “wife on the couch is gold in your pocket?”
3. Darling, would you like to become a gold digger in the future?
4. When buying a gold ring, can you decide to give it to the first person you meet?
Answers:
1. I secretly dream about it.
2. You can't figure it out without a bottle.
3. It can only happen.
4. Easy! But then blame yourself...
- Thanks! God forbid that your family always had answers to all questions, and gold was not a stumbling block.
Poems are good
And the music is better
Isn't it time for us to dance and sing,
Show yourself, look at others.
dance break
If two people love
They already went to the registry office,
This couple, friends, is called FAMILY.
If after the wedding immediately
She is in tears, he threw a vase,
It's, well, who guessed it?
It's called SCANDAL.
Though you are mutually loved,
And forever you are one
Your union, one way or another
They call it MARRIAGE.
If suddenly a dream came true:
Next to the tie and veil,
If guests are waiting at the estate,
So this is your WEDDING.
If you don't get through the house,
There is always someone on the way
You don't have to guess, come on
GUESTS are waiting for you today at home.
Dear guests!
I hope that in any difficult moment you will come to the aid of this couple, because family life is not only happy serenity, but also a piercing wind of misunderstanding, bitterness and tears.
So that our young people do not have to deal with it alone, I suggest that the whole world pile on. Each sip and our young will get less bitterness and tears.
BOWL OF BITTERING
I propose to raise glasses to the young,
For their parents and relatives,
For relatives and friends
Let's have a quick drink.
But before drinking wine,
We need to sweeten it up.
Do not do it ourselves -
Let's leave it to the young!
KISS YOUR WIFE IN THE EAR,
TO BE A TENDER GIRLFRIEND.
KISS THE HUSBAND ON THE CHEEK,
THAT HE WAS A GOOD FRIEND.
KISS YOUR WIFE'S HAND,
TO DO NOT ATTEND
KISS HUSBAND IN THE EYES,
THAT HE DOES NOT TELL YOU FAIRY TALES
KISS YOUR WOMAN ON THE SHOULDER
TO LOVE HOT.
KISS THE HUSBAND IN THE NOSE,
TO NEVER ASK YOU A QUESTION.
KISS YOUR WIFE ON THE LIPS,
TO NOT SHOW TEETH
KISS THE HUSBAND IN THE MOUTH,
TO LIVE YOU TOGETHER YEARS UP TO A HUNDRED.
Ah, BEFORE KISSING! BUT NOT IN vain tried.
CHILDREN ARE THE COLOR OF LIFE!
THERE IS NOTHING BEAUTIFUL!
Well, the newlyweds are kissing, and everyone else is sitting and licking their lips. Let's fix this mess. After all, today is the universal day of love.
If you think that our kissing games are over, then you are wrong.
Who got married in the summer, get up and do not indulge,
Bitterly! Bitterly!! Bitterly!!!
Who got married in the fall, get up and do not indulge,
And publicly wifey, kiss hard!
Bitterly! Bitterly!! Bitterly!!!
Who married winter, get up and do not indulge!
And publicly wife, you kiss hard!
Bitterly! Bitterly!! Bitterly!!!
Who got married in the spring, get up and do not indulge!
And publicly wifey, kiss hard!
Bitterly! Bitterly!! Bitterly!!!
Attention! Auction!
The only lot is running today.
Exclusive prize from the young!
Who wants to buy?
The starting price is 50 rubles.
AUCTION "CHAMPAGNE"
A congratulatory card has come to our young people.
POSTCARD WITH WORDS
Did you drink for the young?
Drinking!
Did you drink for your parents?
Drinking!
To become closer and closer to everyone, let's drink for the guests!
DRINK
"Vodka, beer, cognac"
"Music track"
Guests, we can’t sit indefinitely,
It's time to stretch your limbs!
dance break
Choral game "It's Me!"
Which one of you is ready now
Howling a glass to the brim?
Which one of you has a cheerful song
Enchant us all together?
Which one of you, brothers,
Will you undress for the dance?
Which of you is in a new suit
So much like Casanova?
Which one of you, open-mouthed,
Tell a joke here?
Which one of you, tell me, brothers,
Will it lie under the table?
Who is behind a smart conversation
Drink a glass from a neighbor?
Which one of you, tell me, brothers,
Will you get a hangover tomorrow?
When you wake up at early dawn,
Already alone, already together
And remember the cries of "Bitter"!
At this wedding table.
When in embarrassment alley
The sun peeks through the window
You will become clear clearer
That both of you are already one.
May the joy of this moment
Will go through your whole life
So that happiness is not exchangeable
On copper random little things.
So that no parting
Didn't stop you from saving
All the freshness of the first date,
All the tenderness of your first meetings.
COMPETITIONS.
"serpentine"
The men lead the ball with their feet, serpentine between the ladies. Passing by a lady, she must be kissed. Who quickly.
"Newspaper passions"
Couples. Newspaper sheets are sandwiched between the bellies in an unfolded form. Task: with the help of body movements, crumple paper for a certain. time. Whose lump will be the smallest, he won.
The groom in front of the registry office, everyone knows
He gives flowers to his bride.
And our bride has
A bouquet that does not look away!
But in order to become a wife forever,
It is necessary to part with the bouquet,
Yes, it would be interesting to know
Who will be the next bride.
Now we know the answer
Who will get the bouquet?
So go out, girlfriends,
But only those who are unmarried!
So, the girlish system is ready,
Throw the bouquet, bride, yours!
The bride throws a bouquet
Guests! We have a reason
Reach out to men:
Middle-aged or young
Come out who's single.
And we know at the same moment
Who will be the next groom.
It remains to wait quite a bit.
Take the bandage off your pretty leg.
And here comes the denouement.
Who will get the garter?
Quit, groom, but don't be cunning
And wait for the command: one, two, three.
The groom throws the garter
wedding parable
Happiness decided to leave one house. But first, it decided to fulfill one wish of each family member. The hostess wanted mink coat, daughter to marry an overseas prince. And already on the threshold of happiness saw the owner and asked about his desire. I want the light of the family hearth to never go out in the house. And happiness remains to live in this house, because happiness lives only where the family hearth burns.
From our grandfathers a custom came to us
Bring fire to the house of the newlyweds,
To ignite a welcoming and familiar
The hearth of the family is a guarantee of great love.
And so that his fire gave warmth
And the light of love and work together in life,
So that everyone in your house is warm,
And life was happy, interesting.
Times change and traditions change with them. Have you heard of such a thing that the girl herself is wooing a guy? Let him love, let him bewitch, but to get married?! This also happened, and it was considered a great sin to drive the girl out of the hut with her elders. They treated honest girls with respect, they had the right to save the Cossack from death for guilt, as soon as they said: “He will marry me - let him go” - and the life of the newly made groom is saved.
Weddings were celebrated in different ways. Even in the rituals of neighboring villages, even in small things, the difference was felt. Some had a round loaf, others had a square, those had a Christmas tree branch, those had a pine branch. But everywhere it was fun, sweet and "bitter".
The main points of the ceremony Ukrainian wedding: wooing, betrothal, baking a loaf, girl's evening, twisting a twig, wedding, young yard, young yard, dining room, bride's outfit, etc.
They used to say “to play a wedding” - and they played for a week, because it was not just a party, fun, but a whole complex of rituals that accompanied the creation new family and laid the foundations for its future well-being.
Historical sources testify that even before the beginning of the 20th century, among the Ukrainian peasantry, it was a wedding, and not a wedding, that was considered a legal guarantee of marriage: married couples could live apart for 2-3 weeks, waiting for the wedding.
Everything was preceded by a "loaf" - that was the name in Ukraine and the main ritual wedding bread, and the rite of its preparation, which most often took place on Friday.
AT Saturday evening youth said goodbye to the young. At the girl's evening, a wedding tree was made - “giltse”, “wilce”, “rizka”, “troychatka”. This dense flowering tree is a symbol of youth and beauty of the young, which was used to decorate bread or kalach. It stood on the table throughout the wedding.
Sunday came.
In the morning, the bridesmaids dressed the bride for the wedding: the best shirt, an embroidered skirt, a namisto, a beautiful wreath with ribbons. A woman's wedding dress was kept as a relic until her death. The son took his mother's wedding shirt with him when he went to war.
The groom also came in an embroidered shirt (it was supposed to be embroidered by the bride). Young people went to get married in the church. After that, they came to the yard of the bride, where they were met with bread and salt, sprinkled with corn, and the young woman invited the guests to the table.
Once upon a time, getting a wife was not easy: you had to steal a girl, and win her in battle, and buy ...
When is the best time to have a wedding? The question is not idle. Most often, it does not contain the mundane “when is it more profitable and easier to do this?”, But “when to arrange a wedding so as not to inadvertently harm the young?” So, in the old days, the wedding was most often played in winter, between two winter fasts - from Christmas time to Maslyana. love the people and spring weddings that took place after Easter. Well, it’s rare that one of those who have time to get married could resist the abundant luxurious autumn.
The wedding was preceded by matchmaking. There was a custom: for the success of the business, people who went to matchmaking were whipped with twigs or thrown with women's headdresses in order to quickly woo the girl.
It was an interesting morning wedding day when the bride was bathing. She didn't go to the bathroom alone. When the bride has washed and steamed properly, the healer collects the bride's sweat with a handkerchief and squeezes it into a vial. copyright - http://website This sweat was then poured into the groom's beer in order to bind the young with indissoluble bonds.
A modern wedding is, in most cases, a restaurant celebration and a cortege that takes young people and guests from the registry office to the restaurant. This is where it all ends. In Russia, the wedding train traveled further, and all the guests certainly had to be present at the morning inquiry into the integrity of the bride ...
There are certain wedding rules. The groom not only has the right, but also must give the bride various gifts, starting with bouquets and boxes of chocolates, and ending with " wedding basket”, the contents of which consist of various toilet accessories, gold jewelry, precious stones etc. The bride can also give the groom a gift.
At the wedding, it is customary to give useful, practical things that can be useful to the newlyweds in their future. family life.
Accepting gifts is not easy. The bride and groom should pay attention to each giver, unwrap the gift, look and thank. Money is usually given to the groom, and things and flowers to the bride.
If you want the wedding to be bright, cheerful, with incendiary national dances, then it will be a wedding in the Ukrainian style. You must immediately decide whether this will be a modern stylized event, with elements in the Ukrainian style, or whether it will be a real, traditionally Ukrainian wedding. In order to arrange such a wedding and think over interesting scenario, you will need a person who knows Ukrainian customs and traditions.
Guest invitations
Ukrainian wedding invitations can be issued:
- bright colors with satin ribbons,
- in the form of envelopes with Ukrainian ornaments,
- in the form of an old scroll, sealed with sealing wax and tied with twine.
The text of the invitation should be written in a comic form in Ukrainian. Exactly Ukrainian language the best way to convey the atmosphere of fun and enthusiasm to be experienced.
Location
For a Ukrainian wedding, choose a Ukrainian-style restaurant or organize an outdoor celebration. A restaurant with a newfangled modern design is not suitable for this purpose. Decorate the venue with simple wild flowers such as poppies, sunflowers, periwinkles. To decorate the hall, use earthenware, embroidered towels and tablecloths, wicker furniture, decorate fences with pots and cauldrons, motanka dolls - decor in the style of a Ukrainian village.
An ideal place for such a wedding would be a picturesque village or a small town in the west of Ukraine or in the Carpathians. In that region of the country, ancient customs and traditions that are honored to this day have been preserved.
Decorate a wedding cake for such a wedding with bright flowers, Ukrainian patterns, ears of wheat
Dresses for the bride and groom
Depending on what is to come: a stylized celebration or a real Ukrainian “vesila” (wedding), there are two options for wedding dresses.
For a stylized wedding, use the elements:
- Ukrainian wreath with ribbons, dress with embroidery in Ukrainian style, for the bride;
- an embroidered shirt, a wide red belt, a Ukrainian-style vest for the groom.
For a traditional wedding - national dresses corresponding to a particular region. (because they can differ significantly).
A white dress with national embroidery, over the dress - a red skirt, a wide belt, coral beads, a voluminous wreath of flowers and ribbons - for the bride.
For the groom - red harem pants with a wide belt and embroidered shirt, national headdress - a kubanka with a shlyk. (red cap, sometimes with a tassel at the end).
In the western regions of the country, embroidered vests are worn for the bride and groom. AT winter time- national caftans, warm outerwear.
Modern designers offer very beautiful Ukrainian embroidered Wedding Dresses, ranging from traditional to models modern design. For men big choice elegant embroideries.
The bride’s bouquet is not provided for in such a wedding; according to tradition, she has a wreath of flowers on her head, woven with her own hand. If you still want a traditional bridal bouquet, make it from wildflowers and decorate satin ribbons, as close as possible to the Ukrainian theme.
Makeup can and should be bright. Scarlet lips, blush, bright shadows. Weave into the bride's hair bright flowers with colorful ribbons. Depending on the time of the year, the image of the bride is the best thing to complete with red shoes or red boots - red boots.
Wedding photo session
For wedding photos choose a rural landscape that reflects Ukrainian life. Have a photo session on the picturesque bank of a river or lake, in a field with wheat. Photographs on horseback will be romantic.
Folk traditions - ideas for the script
First, the groom redeems the bride from the parental home. To do this, he will have to pass a test, solve a riddle, find a bride among blindfolded friends. In a word, demonstrate ingenuity, dexterity and physical strength. If the groom does not pass the test, he pays off with money or alcohol. And only after that he will take his bride from the parental home. Parents bless the young, wishing them a long and happy life, after which they can get married.
When leaving the church, the newlyweds are showered with grains of wheat, rye, coins and sweets. This symbolizes the future family life in prosperity and prosperity. After the wedding, the newly-born husband and wife are met by relatives with a loaf on a towel. According to tradition, young people should break off from the loaf, whoever has a larger piece will be the main one in the family.
An interesting tradition called “chobots”. The groom must buy boots for his mother-in-law in advance. At the wedding, he washes her feet very carefully, showing respect, putting on new boots. The ceremony ends with the dance of the son-in-law with the mother-in-law.
The rite that ends the wedding
At the end of the wedding, the mother-in-law and the husband remove the veil from the bride, undo the braid, and tie a scarf over her head. Now the girl is a husband's wife, the rite symbolizes the beginning of a new, already family life. Just like the bouquet, the bride throws her wreath towards the unmarried friends, whoever is caught will be the next to marry.
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Sincere songs, cheerful dances, a richly laid table and people - simple, open, hospitable. A bright and noisy Ukrainian-style party will be a great birthday present for those who like to relax with a truly Slavic scale!
Registration
The degree of complexity of the preparation largely depends on the place of the meeting. If this is a cafe / restaurant of Slavic cuisine (which one does not play a big role), it is quite easy to bring national flavor to a suitable interior. In the courtyard of a private house or in nature, a few bright details are enough, because. nothing distracts from the topic.
In a modern apartment, it is more difficult to organize a Ukrainian party with your own hands, but it is also possible if you approach the implementation of ideas creatively. To help, hundreds of MK from the network, simple materials and time, which will take quite a lot to decorate a Ukrainian party. We offer ideas:
- the stove is the main attribute of the hut, it is from it that you should start transforming the room. Cut out a silhouette from white cardboard, paint it with bright bird flowers (the patterns are quite simple, the child can handle it). From the same cardboard fork, pots - all together with the stove to the free wall. It will turn out a bright decoration and a chic photo zone;
National ornament - tablecloths, bedspreads, towels, napkins, cushions. And also grandmother's striped rugs. Ethnic patterns instantly transform the interior, denoting a given direction.
- Be sure to hang a horseshoe at the entrance. Decorate the walls with wreaths, bast shoes, rural landscapes. Sit on the shelves and make mini-sketches of dolls in national costumes(rag, straw). Find a secluded, but noticeable place for a colorful brownie. All these attributes of the Ukrainian party are easy to do with your own hands;
- wattle fence along one wall, against the background of a hut painted with flowers with a thatched roof. You can cut a goat out of cardboard, put buckets next to it, hang fake lids and other symbolic attributes. If there is not enough space, a few miniature fragments of the fence will suffice;
- at a party in the Ukrainian style you can not do without the gifts of nature. Apples and our other fruits in baskets, vegetables in buckets, garlands of bunches of fragrant herbs, beads of mushrooms, scythes of onions and garlic on the walls, under the ceiling, above the table with treats;
- bright ribbons radiating from a common center will create a festive atmosphere. And also ears of cereals, flowers in bouquets and wreaths - poppies, sunflowers, bluebells, cornflowers (can be artificial, now you can’t immediately distinguish them from real ones);
The entourage is emphasized by ethnic musical instruments (cardboard bandura, kobza), a massive chest in the corner, simple and painted earthenware - lids, pots, jugs.
To make an original invitation in the Ukrainian style, decorate a white blank with your own hands. At the edges there is a braid with ethnic ornament (print or draw according to the example). In the center is a loaf and spikelets, a hut with a thatched roof and a maiden standing next to it, or a flower wreath with colorful ribbons.
Suits
If you have time to prepare, you can arrange a full-fledged costume party - national Ukrainian clothes will not hit your pocket. Of course, we are talking about styling, not handmade. And still very beautiful!
Depending on the region, ethnic costumes have serious differences. But vyshyvanka is always associated with Ukraine, and it is on it that we recommend choosing. For men, this is a simple, loose-fitting shirt with trim at the collar and sleeves. Harem trousers or trousers narrowed down to tie up with a sash or braided rope.
A modern women's vyshyvanka for a Ukrainian-style party is clothes of almost any cut (blouses, tunics, shirts, sundresses, even cocktail dresses). A bright skirt just above the ankles and a white tunic will do. light makeup, red beads, simple hairstyle- loose curls, a braid or two pigtails.
A wreath with ribbons will complement the image (there is an MK on the network how to make a wreath with your own hands from paper buds, it's easy). A striking element of the costume is the famous red laces!
Or maybe the scenario of the Ukrainian party will take place on a farm near Dikanka? Or remember folk tales? Vakula and Oksana, a godfather with a godfather, Cossack robbers, devils and witches, Viy himself or the hero Kotigoroshko and ... you can’t list them all! Of course, it is better to distribute the images of folklore / literary characters in advance.
Menu, serving
Cooking for a Ukrainian party with your own hands is a real pleasure. simple recipes and affordable products guarantee a magnificent Slavic feast! True, you will have to forget about the diet. Vareniki with potatoes, homemade sausage, donuts, cheesecakes, potato pancakes, pancakes - and these are just "snacks".
Serve the table at home, without frills. Treats in large dishes in generous slides. It is great if there are earthenware and wooden utensils, an embroidered tablecloth, napkins. The table should be decorated with plentiful, tasty, satisfying food, and not thematic decor.
For hot stewed pork or whole roasted pig, fried sea fish or roast. Or maybe a goose? Pickles, vegetable salads, sauerkraut, horseradish, mustard and, of course, lard! Onion-garlic, jelly, herring, mushrooms ...
Have the guests popped yet? Then pies for dessert, pancakes with sour cream or jam and ... enough? Oh drinks! Gorilka, honey and kvass for the entourage must be on the table, but otherwise to the taste of the guests. For your birthday, order a Ukrainian-style cake blooming with sweet poppies, sunflowers and cornflowers.
Entertainment
Whether they are city dwellers in the center of Kyiv or ordinary people on a distant farm near Dikanka, Ukrainian National holidays unthinkable without dances and songs. Download folk and modern music, conduct a playful master class on hopak or cossack. Having divided into boys and girls, arrange a battle of voices - who will sing the song chosen by the presenter / birthday man better?
The host's monologues destroy the atmosphere of general rage, so it's hardly worth coming up with a plot scenario for a Ukrainian party. Let contests and entertainments be screwed into the process, as if by chance, at the suggestion of the “toastmaster-barkers”. This course of the holiday is more in line with folk festivals in the Ukrainian style. We offer contests:
Five cans
Tin cans are placed one on one vertical tower. A stick (indoors a soft ball) must be thrown so as to knock down the top jar. Happened? Another throw. Missed or dropped a few cans? The tower is being restored, the move is next. They play until they reach 20 points (plus a point for each knocked down jar) or if someone manages to knock down all five cans in a row.
Cossack agility
To the song “Esaul-esaul”, sitting on a chair, jump on a foot bump (from a mattress, a gymnastic ball - ask your friends), holding a ball in your hand, put on a hose. The goal is to pop your balloon faster than your opponent.
Girlish beauty (for guys)
Cut inexpensive fabric into ribbons of the same length. Tie them to the backs of chairs according to the number of players. You need to braid the ribbons into a braid to the very tip faster than your rivals, sit on a chair, wrap the braid around your waist (as if tied to a chair) and shout: “Wondered me to the braid!”.
Namalyui-ko
Crocodile with tasks in the Ukrainian style, make cards for the competition (a random choice is to draw a Cossack, a hut, a pitcher, little laces, etc.). Draw with both hands, the right side of the drawing with the right hand and vice versa. In one hand, a yellow marker, in the other, a blue marker.
Natsedi-ko (for girls)
You will need shields / cardboard with painted cows and holes in place of the udder. According to the number of participants, it is possible in pairs. Pour white water (flour, gouache) into a rubber glove, insert the cuff into the hole and tie a knot on the back. Just before the competition, make a hole with a needle. The goal is to pour more "milk" into the bucket in the allotted time.
MK or needlework contests (motanka dolls, wreaths), power games for guys, performances by artists - folk dances and songs, Cossack tricks with weapons will perfectly fit into the scenario of the Ukrainian party. Don't forget souvenirs: mugs, stationery, key rings, magnets or amulets, towels, dishes in the Ukrainian style.
