Quotes about grievances. Statements by great and successful people about feelings of resentment Phrases from offended girls

« People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything." La Rochefoucauld F.

« If an offensive word turns out to be true, do not blame the offender." Georgiev V.

« Sometimes it is not without benefit to shut the offender’s mouth with a witty rebuke; such a rebuke should be brief and show neither irritation nor rage, but let her know how to bite a little with a calm smile, returning the blow; just as arrows fly from a solid object back to the one who sent them, so an insult seems to fly back from an intelligent and self-controlled speaker and hits the insulter." Plato

« Regardless of the reason for which you were insulted, it is best not to pay attention to the insult - after all, stupidity is rarely worthy of indignation, and anger is best punished with neglect." Johnson S.

« Offenders come and go, don't keep them in your heart. Forgive and let them go.» Gibert V.

« Just as warm clothing protects against cold, so endurance protects against resentment and resentment. Increase patience and peace of mind, and resentment, no matter how bitter, will not touch you." Leonardo da Vinci

« It is just as difficult to drown out a grudge at the beginning as it is to remember it after several years.» Jean de La Bruyère

« It is easier to offend than to endure an offense." Sir P.

« Time heals sorrows and grievances because a person changes: he is no longer who he was. Both the offender and the offended became different people." Pascal B.

« Resentment and resentment are like poison that you drink in the hope that others will be poisoned. Happiness begins with forgiveness." Combden K.

« The ability to protect yourself from threatening injustice is a sign of intelligence, but the reluctance to repay for the insult caused is a sign of insensitivity." Democritus

« If you are cursed and you are offended, then the curse has achieved its goal." Gevorgyan I.

« Do not forgive your servants if they have offended a stranger. Forgive your servants if they have offended you." Jiju Ch.

« Wash the insult received not in blood, but in Lethe, the river of oblivion." Pythagoras

« Beware of a person who does not respond to your blow: he will never forgive you and will not allow himself to be forgiven." Shaw B.

« If you are offended, the enemy has succeeded." Kushner K.

« Don't judge and then you won't need to forgive." Tarasov V.

« It is doubly difficult to endure insults from those people from whom we have the least right to expect them.." Aesop

« Resentment is usually an acute internal disagreement with the inevitability of what you yourself have persistently strived for.» Yankovsky S.

« The memory of grievances is more durable than the memory of good deeds." Buast P.

« Carrying grudges only makes relationships worse. It is important to be on time cope with resentment. » Afonchenko V.

« There are few people for whom the truth would not sound like an insult." Segur S.

« A person is most offended if his sense of humor or his right to be unhappy is questioned." Sinclair L.

FUNNY AND FUN SAYINGS, APHORISMS AND QUOTES ABOUT RESULTS

« A word can offend, a dictionary can hurt." Don Aminado

« A stupid person remembers insults, a smart person remembers offenders." Turovsky V.

« Women and elephants never forget an insult." Munro G.

« Two negatives make an affirmative. Therefore, if they are trying to confuse you with g@vnom, just f@k about it." Yankovsky S.

« If a person cannot swallow an insult, he needs to chew it! Kashcheev E.

« Some swallow the insult, others swallow the offender." Covered S.

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They offend both enemies and friends, because it is easy to offend the former, and it is pleasant to offend the latter.

The more a person is inclined to offend others, the worse he himself tolerates insults.

They are afraid and offended because they are always waiting for an opportunity to take revenge. Those who offend are also afraid because they are afraid of retribution.

Have you been offended by a kind person? - Do not believe. Bad? - Do not be surprised.

Memory and conscience will never agree on whether offenses need to be forgiven.

George Savile, Marquess of Halifax

To understand means to forgive or to be offended even more.

When you bear an insult, you create a new one.

If a donkey kicks you, don't kick him back.

The offender is either stronger than you or weaker; if weaker, spare him, if stronger, spare yourself.

Insults from those in power must be endured not just patiently, but with a cheerful face; if they decide that they really offended you, they will certainly repeat it.

What is done without intent is not an offense.

If you are dealing with a man, any word you say that can be understood in an offensive sense will be understood in an offensive sense. If you are dealing with a woman, any word you say that cannot be understood in an offensive sense will be understood in an offensive sense.

Beware of specialization: once you successfully perform the role of the offended, you will never get another role.

It is doubly difficult to endure insults from those people from whom we have the least right to expect them.

Wash the insult received not in blood, but in Lethe, the river of oblivion.

Never remember past grievances.

It is easier to offend than to endure an offense.

Salvation from all grievances lies in oblivion.

When you bear a grudge, you create a new one.

He who intends to cause offense already causes it.

Seneca Aucius Annaeus (Younger)

Nature has arranged it in such a way that insults are remembered longer than good deeds. Good things are forgotten, but grievances stubbornly remain in the memory.

Seneca Aucius Annaeus (Younger)

It is better [to] endure grievances than to inflict them [on another].

Love is oppressed by resentment.

The offender sins not as much as the one who allows the offense.

Basil I the Macedonian

For each of us, life has in store

Resentment, disaster and bitterness in every hour.

You cannot renounce a friend because of every offense.

Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if that woman has a noble and proud heart.

Anyone who thinks that new benefits can make the great of this world forget about old grievances is mistaken.

The greatest insult that can be caused to an honest person is to suspect him of being dishonest.

People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults; people of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything.

Francois de La Rochefoucauld

We should not be offended by people who have hidden the truth from us: we ourselves constantly hide it from ourselves.

Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Memory and conscience have always diverged and will continue to diverge on whether offenses should be forgiven.

George Saville Halifax

If you want to offend a more or less educated person, do not call him a scoundrel; better say that he is poorly brought up.

Regardless of the reason for which you were insulted, it is best not to pay attention to the insult - after all, stupidity is rarely worthy of indignation, and anger is best punished with neglect.

There is nothing more offensive for a man than to call him a fool, for a woman to say that she is ugly.

It is impossible to offend a reasonable person; you are offended exactly as much as your feelings exceed your reason.

When Fate is wrong, When resentment rises in your throat, Don’t remember unnecessary words, Wave your hand and whisper: “It happens!” Life will fix everything - just wait a little. Your miracle has not yet come. Betrayal is a painful lesson. But remember, God also had Judas!

Do not offend those who have offended you, the road of offense leads to the world of darkness...

For everyone there will come a moment and an hour to ask God for forgiveness for sins!

Women's logic: I know that I am to blame... but I was offended...

Just imagine how your soul aches, how it cries from resentment,

How, huddled alone in a corner, she hides her tears in her fist.

How I don’t want to show her that she’s unhappy again,

That she’s crushed and sad and that she’s in a lot of pain today.

Just imagine... how hard it is to pretend “nothing happened”

And at the same time push your heart so that it beats more cheerfully...

Trying to raise the mood and collect the last thoughts,

Those who again ran away from sadness and melancholy and somewhere... hung up.

Kindness, please: “Stop patting me on the head as always

Those who came to visit you with one purpose - to spoil your soul.”

Gratitude to the President

And I will say THANK YOU to the PRESIDENT.

What not to collect documents for the case -

That it is impossible to get a simple certificate,

Without taking care of the previous certificate!

Our schoolchildren eat for money,

And the prisoners are sitting behind bars to their heart's content...

That we pay taxes monthly,

BUT WE CAN'T SEE A GOOD ROAD FOR US.

COLLECTIVE FARMS AND STATE FARMS DESTROYED,

But they fed me crap chemicals...

That it is not realistic for the poor to get treatment,

HOW, IN ACTIVITY, TO STUDY AT A UNIVERSITY...

PENSIONERS LIVE ONLY BY PRAYERS,

AND YOUNG PEOPLE ARE DYING LIKE FLIES.

I often wanted to go back to the past.

To take revenge, play a victory march!

But somehow I sat down and thought:

“Who needs it, this revenge of mine? "

I looked around - life has long been established,

and there is someone nearby who will not offend or betray.

...Well, what about the offender? Let him live as best he can.

And the Lord will reward him for me!

Don't rush to say hurtful words.

Don’t rush to say offensive words...

Not everything and not always time heals us...

Even if the years fly by...

Those words... They will simply cripple the soul...

Don't let insults conquer your heart...

And don’t let the shoots of revenge go there...

Forget everything... and start loving again,

Without losing dignity and honor...

May God give you patience and love...

May God grant you to be able to forgive and simply believe...

Hurtful words... drive them away...

When they leave... close the doors tightly...

Never offend your loved ones

Forgive weaknesses, mistakes and sins,

Never betray your loved ones

In moments of jealousy, separation and melancholy.

Don't mislead your loved ones

Cold indifference of hearts,

And don't lecture them,

Without truly understanding yourself.

Do not humiliate the tenderness of feelings with pride,

Unusual, perhaps even for you,

All tests are usually humiliation

They lead to accusatory speeches.

And don't look for ideals in this life,

Although, God grant that you still meet,

Do not poison your soul because of those who have offended you. Today they are “on horseback”, and tomorrow they will drown in their own shit.

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If someone wants to seriously offend you, it means it’s even worse for them.

A smart woman never gets offended. She silently draws conclusions.

A man has offended you and you are crying? Put on your prettiest dress, put on some makeup, look in the mirror, and fuck off.

I was waiting for the call, like waiting for salvation.

Yes, I accept congratulations,

Yes, anniversary... year, year.

How about you, aren’t you sick?

Thank God I'm healthy.

yes, yes I know it's getting late

and the guests are all already at the table...

Thank you for congratulating me,

May God protect your family.

My son called and a tear rolled down.

what a blessing for her...

Grievances should not be swallowed, but spat out.

The one who offends another is deeply unhappy... especially when he realizes it... and if he doesn’t understand it himself, then life will definitely remind him - beautifully, sophisticatedly and cynically... but there will be no one to blame... except himself...

Offend me? This needs to mean something to me...

It has happened in my life that I was offended,

as it seems to me, in vain, undeservedly.

And I have such a position that if a person offended me, I will exclude him from my life... I can greet him and talk to him, but for me he “As a Person” no longer exists...

It’s not at all difficult to offend a loved one.

It is more difficult to understand and ask for forgiveness.

Sometimes it seems that this is impossible.

But it’s better to overcome ridiculous doubts.

With pride, life becomes more difficult.

She, like an asp, poisons our soul.

After all, loved ones are much more important!

So let reason still rule us!

Women are inherently weak creatures, but God forbid you offend her...

I hold no grudge against my offenders and enemies. I keep them away from me. (I)

Russian aphorisms

Sayings, catchphrases

APHORISMS ABOUT RESULT

Resentment is a negative mixture,

The arrogance in oneself cannot be calmed down

And aggressiveness wanders around,

In everything, he finds a reason for grievances.

Those who are offended by God should not be offended. (Ilya Gerchikov) GODS

It often happens that it is better not to notice an insult than to take revenge for it later. (Lucius Annaeus Seneca (younger))

Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if that woman has a noble and proud heart. (Margarita of Navarre)

By insulting another, you are not taking care of yourself. (Leonardo da Vinci)

Never remember past grievances. (Menander)

If a man wants to be considered smarter than he really is, and a woman wants to be considered more beautiful, this delusion is beneficial for both of them and harmless for others. And I would rather make them my friends by indulging them. (Philip Dormer Stanhope Chesterfield) FRIENDSHIP ENEMITY

Just as warm clothes protect against cold, endurance protects against resentment. Increase patience and calmness of spirit, and resentment, no matter how bitter, will not touch you. (Leonardo da Vinci)

The offender sins not as much as the one who allows the offense. (Basily I the Macedonian)

An insult can be more easily endured by hearing than by sight. (Publius Syrus)

Deep-rooted anger cuts too deep. (William Shakespeare)

Anyone who thinks that new benefits can make the great of this world forget about old grievances is mistaken. (Niccolò Machiavelli)

Swallowing insults, you digest yourself. (Unknown author)

There are few people for whom the truth would not sound like an insult. (Sophia Segur) TRUTH

If a person cannot swallow an insult, he needs to chew it out! (Evgeny Kashcheev)

The best defense is attack;

Or better yet, offend and be offended yourself. (Unknown author)

He who harms one harms many. (Unknown author)

An arrogant apology is another insult. (Gilbert Keith Chesterton)

To understand everything means to forgive everything or to be offended even more. (Unknown author)

A man who insults a woman with his last words is like a vile, whom even cattle hates. (Georgy Alexandrov)

A stupid person remembers insults, a smart person remembers the offenders. (Vladimir Turovsky)

If you are offended, the enemy has succeeded. (Konstantin Kushner)

You cannot humiliate a person without humiliating yourself with him. (Booker Taliaferro Washington)

People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything. (Francois de La Rochefoucauld) MIND

If you have already allowed evil fragments to get into your heart and eyes, suffer and endure. If a fragment comes out of the eyes, sooner or later the one in the heart will come out too!

It will immediately become easy for you and you will go looking for new pain. (S. Lukyanenko) HEART

Beware of the one who did not answer your blow. (George Bernard Shaw)

Memory and conscience have always diverged and will continue to diverge on whether offenses should be forgiven. (George Saville Halifax)

If you are hit on the right cheek, turn your left! (Unknown author)

For each of us, life has a reserve of grievances, disasters and bitterness at every hour. (Manilius)

It’s better to commit a hundred heavy sins,

To accept a hundred severe torments, to gain a hundred enemies,

How to offend a parent by becoming disobedient,

Why not come to him in difficult times when he calls. (Zakhireddin Muhammad Babur)

Quotes about resentment, phrases and sayings about resentment

Write down grievances in the sand, carve blessings in marble.

It is not so easy to live with a person you have offended.

Grief and frustration are like hatred, a person becomes ugly from self-pity.

The most severe insults are inflicted on women by those who see the most affection from them.

Wounds from love, if not always kill, never heal.

If you have learned not to be offended, it means that you have learned to look into the heart of another.

Be afraid of offending anyone, for a person does not forget his insults until he avenges them.

Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Real men never get offended by women. They just wait for them to calm down and continue to love them further.

Life is too short to waste it on grudges.

No one can hurt or insult you without your permission. One of the golden keys to harmony is your interpretation of the events unfolding in front of you.

Smart people don't get offended - they draw conclusions.

Those who are not too pleased with themselves are easily offended. Yu.Krashevsky

The resentment will go away, the trust will not return.

If someone offended you, depending on the degree of the mistake, remain silent or speak up, resign yourself or leave, but do not be offended or take revenge.

It has happened in my life that I was offended, as it seems to me, in vain, undeservedly. And I have such a will that if a person has offended me, I will exclude him from my life, I can greet him and talk to him, but for me he no longer exists as a person... Evgeniy Leonov

God said: “Fear the tears of a person offended by you, because he will ask me for help, and I will help.”

It is impossible to offend a happy person, you can only make him laugh...

Stop being offended - they will stop offending you.

How easy it is to offend someone!

He took and threw out a phrase angrier than pepper...

And then sometimes a century is not enough

To return an offended heart...

Just as warm clothes protect against cold, endurance protects against resentment. Increase patience and calmness of spirit, and resentment, no matter how bitter, will not touch you.

Sources: Aphorisms and quotes about offenses They offend both enemies and friends, because it is easy to offend the former, and it is pleasant to offend the latter. Aristotle The more a person is inclined to offend others, the worse he is himself

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Wise words about resentment: quotes, sayings, aphorisms on the website InPearls.ru

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Quotes about resentment, phrases and statements about resentment Quotes about resentment, phrases and statements about resentment Write grievances in the sand, carve blessings in marble. It is not so easy to live with a person you have offended. Grief and frustration - how

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Quotes about resentment

To hell, my love, to hell... I don’t want to meet You and look at You, like Stirlitz’s wife, with eyes full of hope and silent despair. I don’t want to bite my lip until it bleeds, watching You gently lean towards this... this girl. I don't want. Fuck it, my love, fuck it. My letters are not intuitive texts, they are a month and a half of such sadness that makes you ten years older and twenty years dumber. I’m like a cobra that’s ready to strike, but it’s hit with a shovel. She sways, losing the accuracy of her blow, and misses by half a meter, instead of achieving her goal with one kiss. Fuck it, my love, fuck it. This is hopeless: I will be able to get closer to You without bursting into tears only when I stop loving you. But we can work together as long as I love You and feel every movement of Your twilight soul, Your confused consciousness. You need my emotions, but they are the ones that keep me from doing my job calmly. Fuck it, my love, fuck it. If I stop loving You, why will I need You? You haven't realized a single creative idea. Every time another... another girl appeared in your life, you started a new project in accordance with her hobbies: first you draw pictures, then you make reports, now you decided to start designing shop windows. And if you fall in love with a veterinarian and begin to deliver births to bitches, should I write about that too? Fuck it, my love, fuck it. I will not work with You for Your future - with this... with this girl. I won’t do it purely out of harm. Isn't it too fat for you: happiness in your personal life and success in your work? Choose one, because I have neither one nor the other. Isn't it too bold: to keep both the beloved and the loving one? Both kind and beautiful? And eat fish and make love? So, you won’t eat this fish. Fuck it, my love, fuck it. We were delightfully honest with each other, it's too late to deceive now. I left in sadness, and that’s all, and if now I fiddle with little things, it will hurt. But we probably won’t be able to resist, because we still want each other and you have an erection – even when you hear my voice on the phone. Fuck it, my love, fuck it. Soon a tall blond man with a scar will appear in my life, who will leave no room in it for You or Your projects. And if I now begin to take care of Your affairs, he, perhaps, will change his mind about showing up. Fuck it, my love, fuck it. I am not only a man, but also a woman, I need love. This work will cost me blood, but You have nothing to pay for it, because You cannot give me what I want.

Fuck it, my love, fuck it.

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Quotes about resentment

The collection includes quotes about resentment, grief and insult:

• I often offend people, unintentionally. I still don’t understand whether it’s because they are such idiots, or because I’m so bad. Faris Rotter
• ... I said nothing. I know how to swallow grievances and pretend that everything is fine. Yulia Shilova. I want a rich man, or Who didn’t hide, it’s not my fault!
• It's stupid to be next to a man who is generally good, but offends you all the time. Salma Hayek
• Most people get angry because of grievances that they themselves have created by attaching deep meaning to trifles. Lucius Annaeus Seneca (younger)

• The more a person is inclined to offend others, the worse he himself tolerates insults. Seneca
• Words are useless when you are offended. In any case. The offender himself must realize the offense inflicted on him. The offended person must forgive the offender. The main thing is what is in the heart; on the lips, as a rule, there are only emotions. Why share them if over time they lose their meaning anyway? Elchin Safarli
• You turned out to be as primitive as an amoeba, and I don’t communicate with microorganisms. Happily! Margosha
• The greatest insult that can be caused to an honest person is to suspect him of being dishonest. William Shakespeare
• They are afraid and offended because they are always waiting for an opportunity to take revenge. Those who offend are also afraid because they are afraid of retribution. Aristotle
• Putting a person out the door is the best way to get him to think about what is left on the other side of the door. Iris Murdoch. Under the network
• When you bear a grudge, you create a new one. Publilius Syrus
• There is nothing more offensive for a man than to call him a fool, for a woman to say that she is ugly. Immanuel Kant
• Too many people stay alone because they are afraid of being hurt. We are afraid to care about people because we are afraid that others will not care about us. Anna Eleanor Roosevelt
• If you are dealing with a man, any word you say that can be understood in an offensive sense will be understood in an offensive sense. If you are dealing with a woman, any word you say that cannot be understood in an offensive sense will be understood in an offensive sense. Sylvia Cheese
• It is impossible to offend a reasonable person; you are offended exactly as much as your feelings exceed your reason. Frantisek Kryshka
• If a donkey kicks you, don't kick him back. Plutarch
• Nature has arranged it in such a way that insults are remembered longer than good deeds. Good things are forgotten, but grievances stubbornly remain in the memory. Seneca Aucius Annaeus (Younger)
• You cannot renounce a friend because of every offense. As-Samarkandi
• The memory of grievances is more durable than the memory of good deeds. Pierre Buast
• Just as warm clothes protect against cold, endurance protects against resentment. Increase patience and calmness of spirit, and resentment, no matter how bitter it may be, will not touch you. Leonardo da Vinci
• Memory and conscience have always diverged and will continue to diverge on whether offenses should be forgiven. George Saville Halifax
• It is better to bear grievances than to inflict them.
• Beware of specialization: once you successfully perform the role of the offended, you will never get another role. Wieslaw Brudzinski
• People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything. François de La Rochefoucauld, "Maxims and Moral Reflections"
• He always disliked people who “didn’t want to offend anyone.” A convenient phrase: say it and offend whoever you want. Terry Pratchett. Is it true
• We are so strong to be offended and completely weak to forgive. Margosha
• Only weak individuals are offended. The strong either hate or forgive. Grigory Mikhailovich Tyutyunnik
• Collecting a suitcase of grievances and keeping it in the closet for the time being is a sacred thing for any girl. “I forgive everyone, but I write everything down” is their motto. Dmitry Yemets. Methodius Buslaev. The secret magic of Depresnyak
• You can be offended when a person repeats insults inflicted in rage, having already calmed down. Isaac Asimov. Fantastic Journey II
• The offender sins not as much as the one who allows the offense. Basil I the Macedonian
• Insults from those in power must be endured not just patiently, but with a cheerful face; if they decide that they really offended you, they will certainly repeat it. Seneca
• Never remember past grievances. Menander
• The offender is either stronger than you or weaker; if weaker, spare him, if stronger, spare yourself. Seneca
• Resentment is usually an acute internal disagreement with the inevitability of what you yourself have persistently strived for. Stas Yankovsky
• Only a friend can offend. Resentment is when you are mortally wounded by someone to whom you have become attached. Maria Semenova
• Resentment is like a tattoo - easy to apply, difficult to remove. Ashot Nadanyan
• A teacher's insult is better than a father's tenderness. Saadi
• It is easier to offend than to endure an offense. Publilius Syrus
• Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if that woman has a noble and proud heart. Margaret of Navarre

• An insult can be more easily endured by hearing than by sight.
• No one can hurt or insult you without your permission. Robin Sharma
• Write down grievances in the sand, carve blessings in marble. Pierre Buast
• Regardless of the reason for which you were insulted, it is best not to pay attention to the insult - after all, stupidity is rarely worthy of indignation, and anger is best punished with neglect. Samuel Johnson
• Being offended and indignant is like drinking poison in the hope that it will kill your enemies. Nelson Mandela
• We should not be offended by people who have hidden the truth from us: we ourselves constantly hide it from ourselves. Francois de La Rochefoucauld
• They offend both enemies and friends, because it is easy to offend the former, and it is pleasant to offend the latter. Aristotle
• We, people, keep our grievances in our hearts, cherish them, without even realizing that this destroys us. Just like that, we take pleasure in trying on the role of the victim. Helen Brown
• Wash the insult received not in blood, but in Lethe, the river of oblivion. Pythagoras of Samos
• He who harms one harms many.
• She was not offended, but the bad worm still began to dig holes in her heart. Victoria Platova. Stalingrad, metro station
• Love is oppressed by resentment.
• Salvation from all grievances lies in oblivion. Publilius Syrus
• He who intends to cause offense already causes it. Seneca Aucius Annaeus (Younger)
• Memory and conscience will never agree on whether offenses need to be forgiven. George Savile, Marquess of Halifax
• Treason can be forgiven, but resentment cannot. Anna Andreevna Akhmatova
• To understand means to forgive or to be offended even more. Atxander Kumor
• Anyone who thinks that new benefits can make the great of this world forget about old grievances is mistaken. Niccolo Machiavelli
• Publilius Syrus
• If you want to offend a more or less educated person, do not call him a scoundrel; better say that he is poorly brought up. Samuel Johnson
• The heaviest insult is much easier to bear if you swallow it together with the offender. Boris Krutier
• I recognize friendship by the absence of disappointments, true love by the inability to be offended. Antoine de Saint-Exupery. Citadel
• He who screams in rage is funny, but he who is silent in offense is terrible. Xiang Tzu
• For each of us, life has a reserve of grievances, disasters and bitterness at every hour. Maarri
• It’s still strange that the people who harmed you believe that you yourself are to blame for everything. Bernard Werber. Thanatonautes
• Time heals sorrows and grievances because a person changes: he is no longer who he was. Both the offender and the offended became different people. Blaise Pascal
• Have you been offended by a kind person? - Do not believe. Bad? - Do not be surprised. Seneca
• It is doubly difficult to endure insults from those people from whom we have the least right to expect them. Aesop
• A person's character can never be understood more accurately than by the joke he takes offense at. Georg Christoph Lichtenberg
• It wasn’t just a stone that flew into my garden, but some unhewn block from the Paleolithic era. Maria Sveshnikova. Fuck's
• What is done without intent is not an offense. Seneca
• A well-bred person does not offend another out of awkwardness. Anna Andreevna Akhmatova
• I tossed and turned, remembering past grievances. And he relaxed, remembering that the grievances were in the past. Henry Lyon Oldie. Way of the Sword
• ...It is easy to hurt a person, but it is much more difficult to remove the thorn of resentment from his heart. Chitra Divakaruni. Spice Princess

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Statements of great and successful people about feelings of resentment

“People of small minds are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything.” La Rochefoucauld F.

“If an offensive word turns out to be true, do not blame the offender.” Georgiev V.

“Sometimes it is not without benefit to shut the offender’s mouth with a witty rebuke; such a rebuke should be brief and show neither irritation nor rage, but let her know how to bite a little with a calm smile, returning the blow; just as arrows fly from a solid object back to the one who sent them, so an insult seems to fly back from an intelligent and self-controlled speaker and hits the insulter.” Plato

“No matter for what reason you were insulted, it is best not to pay attention to the insult - after all, stupidity is rarely worthy of indignation, and anger is best punished with neglect.” Johnson S.

“Offenders come and go, don’t keep them in your heart. Forgive and let them go." Gibert V.

“Just as warm clothes protect against cold, self-control protects against resentment and resentment. Increase patience and calmness of spirit, and resentment, no matter how bitter, will not touch you.” Leonardo da Vinci

“It is just as difficult to drown out a grudge at the beginning as it is to remember it after several years.” Jean de La Bruyère

“It is easier to offend than to endure an offense.” Sir P.

“Time heals sorrows and grievances because a person changes: he is no longer who he was. Both the offender and the offended became different people.” Pascal B.

“Resentment and resentment are like poison that you drink in the hope that others will be poisoned. Happiness begins with forgiveness." Combden K.

“The ability to protect yourself from threatening injustice is a sign of intelligence, but the reluctance to repay for the insult caused is a sign of insensitivity.” Democritus

“If you are cursed and you are offended, then the curse has achieved its goal.” Gevorgyan I.

“Do not forgive your servants if they have offended a stranger. Forgive your servants if they have offended you." Jiju Ch.

“Wash the insult received not in blood, but in Lethe, the river of oblivion.” Pythagoras

“Beware of a person who does not respond to your blow: he will never forgive you and will not allow himself to be forgiven.” Shaw B.

“If you are offended, the enemy has succeeded.” Kushner K.

“Don’t judge and then you won’t need to forgive.” Tarasov V.

“It is doubly difficult to endure insults from those people from whom we have the least right to expect them.” Aesop

“Resentment is usually an acute internal disagreement with the inevitability of what you yourself have persistently strived for.” Yankovsky S.

“The memory of insults is more lasting than the memory of good deeds.” Buast P.

“Carrying grudges only makes relationships worse. It is important to be able to cope with resentment in a timely manner.” Afonchenko V.

“There are few people for whom the truth would not sound like an insult.” Segur S.

“A person is most offended when his sense of humor or his right to be unhappy is questioned.” Sinclair L.

FUNNY AND FUN SAYINGS, APHORISMS AND QUOTES ABOUT RESULTS

“A word can offend, a dictionary can hurt.” Don Aminado

“A stupid person remembers insults, a smart person remembers the offenders.” Turovsky V.

“Women and elephants never forget an insult.” Munro G.

"Two negatives make an affirmative. Therefore, if they are trying to confuse you with a g@vn, just f@k about it.” Yankovsky S.

“If a person cannot swallow an insult, he needs to chew it!” Kashcheev E.

“Some swallow the insult, others swallow the offender.” Covered S.

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The sage was asked:
- They say that you know everything, but tell us - what is resentment?
The sage brought a porcelain cup to his lips, slowly drank sake from it and answered:
- Here, there are a few drops of sake left at the bottom of the cup. Do I feel offended by this? If I don't want it anymore, then I don't care. And if I didn’t have enough, then I’ll find more sake, pour it into the same cup, and the remaining drops will dissolve in it. And then I'll drink them. That’s how resentment is, a person decides for himself whether to endlessly torment himself with his resentment, or to make sure that it dissolves with benefit.

Living with resentment is quite easy. The mechanism of resentment simplifies a lot. I am good - they are bad, so I was offended. Resentment removes guilt. Resentment even justifies. But if you are offended for a long time and about many things, then after a while you can find yourself beautiful, living in a bad and offensive world among bad and offensive people. And if you don’t be offended, then questions will arise mostly to yourself. And then you can feel that you are not the smartest, not the most right and not the most beautiful in the world, but at the same time live among good people and in not the worst of worlds.

The husband is offended by his wife because he thought that she would realize that he would need a white shirt tomorrow.
The wife is sulking at her husband because she thought that he would think of buying her flowers.
The child is offended by his parents because they should have guessed that he needed a new construction set, etc.
That is, first we figure out how other people should behave. Then we make sure that they don’t behave like that. And we are offended by them for this. This is normal, because in a madhouse that’s not what happens.

There is nothing worse than the anger of people who were once close to us. Unlike the rest of the world, they know all our secrets, all our weak points and every pain point. And when they get angry, they hit with all their might, as painfully as they can. And they consider themselves entitled to do this precisely because they were once close and enjoyed our trust. So, once again opening your soul to someone, it would be nice to remember that this person can someday become a former loved one...

Who will I be able to amaze with this hackneyed truth?
Do not rush to pronounce words born of resentment.
Do not rush to offend your friend with your injustice,
To suddenly drive him into a corner, even though he is no weaker.
He's just a little kinder. he will wait out the rage in silence.
And the sooner you cool down, the more bitter your departure will be.
And then shame will awaken in you. Don’t rush to part with him.
And the friend will only smile sadly. Like tears, the blood will be wiped away from the soul.

Socrates was never offended. He rightly said that this either did not concern him, or if it did, it was right. If you are offended by a person, then he is taller, smarter and more worthy than you. So take an example from him, reach up to his level. And if he is lower, stupider and less worthy than you, then, by being offended by him, you exalt him with your offense, and humiliate yourself.

A person has offended you, but you go and do him good, give him the warmth and affection of your soul, and the knot will be untied, the anchor will fall from your heart. After this, you will both live and breathe easier. Through such victories with love in the places of your defeat, the heart, step by step, victory after victory, will gain purity.

We waste so much time suffering from grievances that we won’t even remember in a year. No, you need to devote your life to actions and feelings worthy of a person. Let us be inspired by great thoughts, genuine affections, immortal deeds. After all, life is too short to waste it on trifles.

Even if you offended me, why do I need your apology? This is your life and your actions. We make our life by our actions. And if we do the wrong thing, we end up in trouble later. What to do - right or wrong? There is freedom of choice here.

No matter how much you are offended, you still need to trust people, otherwise you will become like a hermit in a cave, who is on alert even in his sleep. Danger can never be avoided anyway. Life is even deadly dangerous, even fatal at the end of life.

There is nothing more enduring than hopeless love. Mutual love can get boring. Passionate love turns into friendship or hatred. But unrequited love will never completely leave the heart, so firmly will resentment cement it.

I'm never angry with anyone. There is nothing anyone can do that deserves such a reaction from me. You get angry with people when you feel that their actions are important. I haven't felt anything like this for a long time.

Learn not to be offended. It's very difficult, but so rewarding!

Free your soul from insults... and you won’t notice how your soul will take off!)

In the east there lived a sage who taught his disciples this way:

“People insult in three ways. They may say you are stupid, they may call you a slave, they may call you untalented. If this happens to you, remember a simple truth: only a fool will call another a fool, only a slave looks for a slave in another, only a mediocrity justifies what he himself does not understand by someone else’s madness. Therefore, never be offended by anyone, and do not insult yourself.”

Start with a simple thing: wish all the best to the people who once offended you.

No need to carry around stupid suitcases of grievances. If only because if your hands are busy with something bad, then it is impossible to take something good from them.

the less he finds reasons to be offended.

No one can offend me unless I allow it myself.

Mahatma Gandhi ---

You should not be offended by the person who offended you - in his soul he is more offended.

The inner world does not tolerate chaos. Take a “broom” and clean up the shower. It’s time to finally sweep out all the grievances and sorrows, losses and disappointments that have accumulated there. It's time to finally make room for something truly new, bright, pure and beautiful.

You don't forgive others to heal them. You forgive others to heal yourself.

Chuck Hilling

It is impossible to offend a happy woman...

You can only make her laugh!

If you have learned not to be offended, it means that you have learned to look into the heart of another.

Challenging behavior towards you is not a personal insult towards you, it is a measure of a person’s suffering. This is how he shows you how much he hurts and how much compassion he needs.

They may say you are stupid, they may call you a slave, they may call you untalented. If this happens to you, remember a simple truth: only a fool will call another a fool, only a slave looks for a slave in another, only a mediocrity justifies what he himself does not understand by someone else’s madness. Therefore, never be offended by anyone, and do not insult yourself, so as not to be branded as stupid, untalented slaves.

Happy people cannot be evil. Only those who are unhappy themselves try to offend others. Your offender was not trying to offend you. He was only projecting onto you what was the real purpose of his aggression. (Anthony de Mello)

The greater the resentment, the more I lose strength.

Resentment is the problem of the one who is offended. This means that it was you who did not have enough mental strength for this person, it was you who could not cope with yourself.

If you are full of strength, energy, if you feel good simply because it is spring outside, and you feel strength and power in yourself - is a person in such a state capable of being offended by someone? When we are full of energy, grievances pass us by. If we are offended, it means that somewhere there is already an outflow of energy, it means that somewhere you have not tracked your condition and have not taken measures to bring yourself back to normal. So what do other people have to do with it?

Why are you offended that no one thought of you or washed the dishes on your birthday? Why didn’t you warn about this yourself, didn’t you say so? Why are you silently, angrily gritting your teeth, doing something, instead of asking someone to help you? Why do you create dramatic images and feel sorry for yourself to the point of tears? Why? Maybe you want to torture yourself?

Any of our grievances is connected with our self-esteem, in other words, with our ego. That is, we are offended that they underestimated us, did not predict our desires, did not think about us first.

(quotes from the article “Adult Children of Resentment” - Maria Petrochenko - Wheel of Life June 2013)

When you have the same people around you, it somehow comes naturally that they come into your life. And having entered your life, after a while they want to change it. And if you don’t become what they want you to be, they get offended. Everyone knows exactly how to live in the world. But for some reason no one can improve their own life.

Paulo Coelho "The Alchemist"

Don’t clog your memory with grievances, otherwise there may simply be no room left for beautiful moments!

Blaming others is such a little trick that you can use whenever you don’t want to take responsibility for what is happening in your life. Use it - and you are guaranteed a risk-free life and a slowdown in your own development.

Resentment provides two important benefits that people have a hard time giving up. The first is judgment, and the second is a sense of self-righteousness.

Most people get angry because of grievances that they themselves have created by attaching deep meaning to trifles.

No one can offend you without your consent.

I still don’t understand why people stay angry with each other for a long time. Life is already unforgivably short, it’s impossible to really get anything done, there’s so little time that you can say there’s none at all, even if you don’t waste it on all sorts of stupid things like quarrels.
Max Fry

Regardless of the reason for which you were insulted, it is best not to pay attention to the insult - after all, stupidity is rarely worthy of indignation, and anger is best punished with neglect.
Samuel Johnson

If a donkey kicks you, don't kick him back.Plutarch

Resentment is actually a way of grooming and protecting one’s self. (Rollo May - The Art of Psychological Counseling)