Love between Georgian and Russian. Hot Georgian men: a promising romance or a story without a happy ending

A conversation with my neighbor Zina prompted me to this slippery topic. So, meet early in the morning on the street.

Still, these newcomers are arrogant. They are simply stealing our men. Just imagine, a pensioner came from Moscow and married a Georgian widower. And now, with pressure and groans, she prepares chakhokhbili for him. She can’t even say the words, but she’s saying something. And he calls him, you know what?

- “Atari”! I would just take it and strangle it. The invader is.

What, I say, is the problem? Let them enjoy their health. “Atari” is probably making things up a la Chakhokhbili and not complaining. Why didn't you marry this starving widower yourself?

I? Are you kidding me? I didn’t get married at the time. And now even more so. At 70, it’s time to get ready for the next world, not get married. People have no shame or conscience!

And we went in different directions. Nevertheless, the conversation stuck in my head and I began to question different people, how can one explain the phenomenon that many Georgians marry Slavic women, while local women, with all their merits, it is not known why they remain unclaimed. Or it just seems like it to me.

Here are some opinions.

Tamriko Kiknadze: My older brother moved to Russia 30 years ago. First he studied, then he served in the army. At first he lived in a hostel, then registration was required and he moved to his classmate from Tambov, who already had a one-room apartment. Lived with her for several years.

My father was nervous and called Achiko here. After all, he was the only son, high hopes were pinned on him, they were looking for girls from good families. Then Achiko announced to us that he would marry Valya, since she was pregnant. My father almost went crazy due to nervousness. Marrying a woman with a child from his first marriage was beyond his understanding. He had a stroke, but Achiko still did as he decided. He announced to us that Valya is the best. In the end, we had to come to terms and accept Valya with wooden smiles. Valya visited Tbilisi, but she never wanted to live here. Achiko also repeated in her tone:

Indeed, he earned good money, sent money to his parents every month and did not forget us, two sisters. Sometimes he came with his son and stepdaughter, who called him “my daddy” and did not even know that he was not her father.

We asked him why he didn’t marry a Georgian, and named specific girls who corresponded to him in all respects. He said something like this:

Russian women are more beautiful than ours in both their faces and figure. It's easier to communicate with them. Georgians are more pretentious. I lived with different women, and no one demanded anything from me.

What can I say after all these years? My brother is apparently happy, he is a crazy father, he loves his son very much. They have different things with their wife, Achiko is cheating on her on the sly, and Valya turns a blind eye to it. Their marriage took place. I only feel sorry for my father, who can’t come to his senses after a stroke, can barely walk, can barely talk. It was necessary to accept Achiko's choice more philosophically.

And as for our women... In my corps, exactly half of the girls never got married, although all are beauties, hardworking and good housewives. Although there are those who got married two or three times.

David: My wife is Georgian. We live normally, we have two children. Several of my friends have Slavic wives. This, of course, has its advantages. It's much easier with them than with ours. And visually they immediately attract the eye. We men do not like to be pressured and burdened with responsibility. You haven’t had time to just hang out with a girl for a month, go to the movies, cafes, back and forth, her parents are already looking at you as an official son-in-law, and try not to get married. The whole thing. And my friends lived with their loved ones for several years, and no one dragged them to sign. They could jump off at any moment. For example, my sister remained unmarried, although she is a wonderful housewife, a beauty and an excellent specialist in her field. But she would not let a man come close to her with any suspicious proposals.

Maiko Gagnidze: Yes, there is such a tendency. I also notice that our men marry Russians. Either they bring them here, or they meet tourists here. Personally, I like Russian women too. There is a lot to learn from them. They are beautiful, disciplined, raise children well and are very relaxed. No complexes. I think that’s why our men like them.

Ruslan Strizhak: Another option. At the level of instincts, two fight, one requires a close and native type for the reproduction of offspring, and the other requires the most different one, for the introduction of fresh blood. Both instincts work in everyone, and which one will be stronger depends on external factors.

Yulia: Maybe the lack of candidates large quantity relatives? Our men are spoiled. Drunk, skinny, doesn't work and drinks. But you still run after him, and he turns his face up - yes, you are fat, and you have children from your first marriage... And the Georgian himself runs after you, and in general loves children more than the average Russian - his own and others. And he will help, and give compliments, and is always ready for intimate relationships. So our ladies favor Georgians, they know what to compare with. Sometimes they are ready to carry such a handsome man in their arms. And they see a good attitude.

Alena: I myself am a native resident of Tbilisi, but I have not noticed such a trend. They marry both of them quite well. They don't marry someone. Very often it depends on the desire of the woman. By the way, not everyone wants to get married.

Tatiana Leon: Yes, I am generally for mixed marriages, I am a child from a mixed marriage, my child is from a mixed marriage. I don’t agree with saying that they only marry Slavic women; I have a friend who is married to a Japanese woman. It’s just that those Georgians who are married to Japanese, Italian, French, etc., are almost invisible in Georgia, they simply don’t live there! Why are Slavic women visible, because the near abroad is more accessible, then in Georgia, I think, after the 90s, a massive depression began: everywhere is good, except for Georgia, and many left, in all directions, and since it was easier in the near abroad, so The kind of marriages turned out to be where you live there and fall in love. Then a wave of tourist boom began with the oohing and aahing of the Slavs, how they adore Georgia and how they wanted to live in Georgia, and so the spell was set in motion. About the fact that it is easier to live with Slavic women, it is difficult to put the same labels on everyone, everyone has their own character, but if you ask Europeans who ate the dog about this, they will say that it is Slavic women who are more capricious, but I don’t want to generalize that Georgians are more interested in brains, it’s hard to generalize, there are different ones. But, probably, in the beginning it is more difficult to court Georgian women, because they grew up with beautiful words and know that it is often dust in the eyes, beautiful conversations, so men do not want to waste their energy.

Anna Masterkova: Parents of Slavic women interfere less in their choice. They don’t even look at economic conditions. The girl’s responsibility to the family is less, especially at the initial stage of dating. You can step back more painlessly, but in practice it leads to marriage faster.

Anna Puchkova: Georgian men often fall in love with Slavic women, because the behavior is different and the attitude is different. Now, if a man grabbed all the bags and carried them, the Georgian woman will not blink an eye: “He’s a man, he’s obliged.” And a Slav, especially from Moscow, will say: “Wow, how nice, thank you very much.” She knows that there are men who don't do this. If a Georgian woman offers a man to take her somewhere, bring her from somewhere, then she takes it for granted, and the Slavic woman takes it as a super caring man. If a Georgian woman counts on serious relationship, then he can bully a guy for months without having intimate relationships, a Slav, in most cases, for the sake of decency, will endure for two weeks, and then will have a full-fledged relationship. For Georgians, children and parents come first in most cases. For a Slavic woman, a man is almost always the center of her attention. At the same time, of course, Georgians devote a lot of time and effort to household chores and worries, and this cannot but admire. All this is not without exceptions. There are also counter examples. But men explain it all something like this.

Temuri: I didn't notice anything like that. As it was, so it is. The main thing is not in origin, but in finances. If everything is financially stable in the family, then there will be no problems. Nowadays, if men see that a woman makes good money, they will gladly marry her. And women think the same way. For example, my neighbor married a Chinese man and already has a child. The Chinese have a business here. They live normally, there is definitely no misunderstanding. I'm a different person. I would never marry anyone other than a Georgian. I really respect our traditions, culture and history. And I think that you shouldn’t mix with anyone.

Many respondents repeated what had already been said before them. All this can be summed up by one simple truth - there are no ready-made recipes for happiness.

I would like to end this impromptu survey with one story.

Marina Kulikova: I want to tell my story.

On July 3, 2008, I also met a young and handsome guy. I knew little about the Georgians, and about Georgia in general, at that time; we talked for days on end on Skype, strong feelings appeared, and then on 08/08/2008 the war began. I bought tickets, but the borders were closed, how many worries there were, how many nerves - it’s simply beyond words. And, lo and behold, two days before my departure the border was opened! I didn’t doubt it for a minute and flew from St. Petersburg to Tbilisi, of course, in transit. At the airport I was told that my flight from Kyiv had been postponed by 12 hours. There had never been a connection like there is now; I managed to convey the message that I was late. As a result, when I was flying, I was the only Russian on the plane, there was NOT ONE sideways glance, and this was September 11th! Everything would be fine, but while I was sitting in Kyiv, they lost my luggage, and when I arrived, everyone had already left, and I was still writing a statement about the loss, I could not go to Gio. He waited for me for 12 hours at the airport! Neither he nor I knew exactly when I would arrive; there was no longer any communication either.

We spent ten amazing days together, and then, when I returned, I decided all my affairs and two months later I arrived for good.

08/08/2009, exactly one year after the sad events, our Sandra was born, and a year later - Gio, son. We have been happily married for nine years, for us every day is like the first day!

So you can’t put everyone under the same brush: there are both good and bad people in every country! Decency does not depend on nationality!

Girls, don't be afraid to love and be loved.

GOOD and MUTUAL LOVE to everyone!

I join Marina Kulikova’s wishes and wish all Sputnik readers to find their soul mate and, most importantly, to keep mutual feelings for life.

What attracts them? Passionate love of a Georgian or his emotional nature? Rich inner world or beautiful centuries-old traditions Georgian people? This is a big and controversial issue. But today we will try to figure out the main thing, namely: how to marry a Georgian?

If your goal is a Georgian husband, then you need to behave correctly with a Georgian man from the very moment you meet, and continue throughout candy-bouquet period and until the moment your chosen one makes the cherished proposal.

A passionate and vibrant relationship awaits you with a Georgian. He will shower you with flowers, gifts and compliments, will be incredibly romantic and eloquent, gracefully, beautifully and generously courting you - do not disturb him. Don’t argue with a Georgian to the point of white heat, never rush into anything, on the contrary, savor every moment spent with him. After all, that's exactly what he does.

Remember, if a Georgian chose you, it means that he believes that you were promised to him by heaven. And there is no use arguing with the heavens: so relax and have maximum fun!

He is emotion, you are modesty

Georgians are very jealous, so we recommend not to provoke their anger or provoke them. In a word, giving a Georgian a reason for jealousy is a dangerous thing. From possible consequences- fights with competitors, terrible curses and painful breakups.

Therefore, during courtship, forget about ultra-short skirts that show cleavage, affairs, light flirting with the men around you and any other frivolous pranks that can lead to a fatal end to a never-begun romance with a Georgian.

What Georgians value in a woman is " a real woman", and everything that goes beyond this concept causes his irritation and rejection. And he also values ​​​​his reputation very much.

He will be reliable, powerful, perhaps even a little tyrant, but it is precisely these qualities that will attract you to him. Because underneath all this there is frank tenderness, adrenaline and deep feelings.

What is the most important thing for a Georgian in a woman? He values ​​modesty, loyalty, decency, nobility, intelligence, complaisance, generosity, wisdom, gentleness and tact in a woman. Therefore, if you are a happy owner of these qualities, then you are lucky, and if not, you know in which direction to develop.

Don’t think that a Georgian is all so daring, brutal and passionate, but demands restraint and chastity from a woman. No. If you want to be close to a Georgian, then, first of all, you must be an open person, internally free, and also beautiful - not only externally, but also in actions.

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A Georgian is like an X-ray, he sees everything. And the main evidence of your sincerity and disposition towards him is your eyes, which do not lie. So watch not only his gaze, but also your own.

Finally, let the Georgian know that you are serious. If you are his woman, he will choose you and make you the happiest on earth, and if not, which, alas, will disappear.

Married to tradition

Georgians endlessly respect the traditions of their ancestors and try with all their might not to violate them. This means that patriarchy, unconditional respect for elders, order and peace should a priori reign in a Georgian family.

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Total reverence for parents is also part of this topic: for example, a Georgian husband would rather agree with you somewhere in the kitchen or bedroom, but in front of his mother and father, he is right, and this is not discussed.

He will demand that you comply with all traditions and rules. And it can even cause a scandal if you forget to put salt on the table. In short, on the one hand, he will idolize you, and on the other, he will keep you under a tight rein. But when you study the way of life and culture of Georgia and the Georgians, he will be proud of you and set an example for others.

Faith, honor and dignity - Georgians cherish all their lives. You will also have to come to terms with the fact that great importance his life is occupied by relatives and friends, which means their problems are his problems. He will devote a lot of his time, money, nerves, attention and care to them. And this arrangement should not irritate you, because for Georgians this is sacred.

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But behind all this severity and severity, Georgian men are very sincere and good people, with a great sense of humor. It's in their genes. And they like to meet similar qualities in women.

Also, when choosing a Georgian as your husband, you should know that raising children, caring for the home and household will fall on your shoulders. For this, your Georgian husband will appreciate you and carry you in his arms.

In addition, if you want to marry a Georgian, you must also fall in love with his homeland - Georgia - with all its rich culture, history, beautiful nature and legends. And not just to fall in love, but to be imbued with, to absorb this love into yourself. There is no other way: either you become a fan of the Georgian land, or a stranger. There is no smell of indifference here.

Of course, when hunting for a Georgian husband, you need to understand that all Georgians are different. Their morals, habits, and ways of life depend on their place of residence, family, education, status, experience and many other factors. But, the main thing why they look for and want Georgian men is their ardent love. Therefore, all the inconveniences and sacrifices are the price to pay for it.

Ten golden rules

Today, finding a Georgian is not difficult, but becoming the only one for him is not an easy task.

You may be amazed by the variety of types of Georgians - after all, among them, as well as among other nations, you will find machos, knights, despots, handsome men, intellectuals, and libertines. But they have one thing in common - some inexplicable, charming and attractive gene, unrestrained Vital energy, core, character, nature, which if you really see, you will love selflessly.

Therefore, finally, we offer you ten golden rules for ringing a Georgian man:

— learn how to cook delicious Georgian dishes;

- respect his parents;

— be interested in Georgian culture - traditions, cinema, literature, music;

- appreciate the warrior in him;

- let him understand that family and children are the main goal of your life;

- behave modestly and highly morally;

- learn Georgian language;

- be a woman in every sense and be an individual;

- and be yourself, because Georgians do not accept artificiality.

Of course, you may not agree with all of the above about a Georgian man, not believe and not recognize his uniqueness, but isn’t this so if, of all the men on the planet, you chose him?!

Absolutely all Slavic girls who have visited Georgia (blondes in particular) will confirm that Georgian men, to put it mildly, “breathe unevenly” towards us. They always give us a big discount "for beautiful eyes“, they look at us the way a thirsty person looks at ice water. I've always wondered why we get so much attention. With every look the horseman directed at me, I was surprised, “Are they really missing their women?!” Having recently visited the homeland of khachapuri and khinkali, and taking advantage of the moment, I found brave souls who explained to me why they were not satisfied with Georgians, writes Yulia Dryn in The People.

Sandro Nemsadze, 27 years old (was married to a Russian woman for 3 years)

We met my Russian wife in Turkey (I worked there, and she came to visit her boyfriend). If we call everything by its proper name, then I stole her from my friend (that’s how they are, Slavs - for their sake you can lose your head and sacrifice a friend). After dating for a couple of months, we got married in Georgia. I still remember how she called her parents in Russia and said: “Mom, I married a Georgian.” Unfortunately, we only lived together for three years, but I consider her a very good girl, friend, wife (and I will always be jealous of her). And in the future (if fate has another marriage in store for me), I would really like a Slavic wife again. Believe me, it is better to live a year with a Slavic woman than five with a Georgian woman. +

Since childhood, my grandmother said that I would have a Russian wife. Slavic women, unlike our girls, have always attracted attention with their alluring appearance. Just recently I met a Georgian woman at an event. She looked great and was open in communication (I was even surprised that I met such a well-groomed and uncomplicated Georgian). A week later he asked her out on a date and... regretted it. She came unkempt, as if she was not getting ready for a date, but to go to the garden. Georgian girls don’t know how to be sexy, to attract a guy, they don’t even try to attract a man. +

Most Georgian women are very complex, but at the same time they are very demanding, and they give nothing in return (they always want flowers, gifts, restaurants, attention and take everything for granted). +

The only advantage of Georgian wives is that they are easy to live with (they never ask their husbands to wash the dishes and clean the house, because from childhood they are taught to do it all on their own).

Vakhtang, 30 years old (married to a Ukrainian woman for 5 years) +

I met my wife at a friend's wedding. Fun, dancing, toasts... After the wedding, we started texting, then dating. Slowly everything was approaching the wedding again, only this time it was ours. We often laugh that it all started with a wedding and ended with a wedding. +

I was specifically looking for a Slavic wife. In principle, I have nothing against Georgian women - Georgians always put family first, many are even ready to turn a blind eye to their husband’s infidelity in order to save the family, and our men, unfortunately, take advantage of this. But a Slavic woman wants to be the only one for her husband and does everything to be so. Changed it - be prepared to see a suitcase with things at the door the next morning. Believe me, men married to Slavic women will never even think about cheating on her, and if they do, he’s just an idiot.

Georgiy, 22 years old (married to a Ukrainian woman for 2 years) +

I met my Ukrainian wife on vacation. To be honest, at the time we met, I was very drunk. But even in a drunken state, he realized that he was lost. The very next day I forgot about my friends and spent time exclusively with her. Six months later we got married. +

Let's ignore the appearance (there is no need for unnecessary words here - the Slavs undoubtedly win). Georgian women are materialists, the Russian phrase “with a sweetheart is heaven and in a hut” is not about our women. But the Slavic people live by the soul, they are ready to live in this hut for the sake of feelings. Now someone will say that I’m wrong, because many Ukrainian women won’t even look at a guy without a car and a penthouse. There are exceptions everywhere, I will answer. +

I would also like to add - if a Slavic girl cannot get married in her homeland, let her come to Georgia, there are potential suitors for her like a tangerine on a tree. He will still turn his nose and choose. +

In short, having a Slavic wife is as prestigious in our country as driving a Bentley to a luxury restaurant. Such men hold their noses high and consider themselves lucky, and everyone secretly envy them. +

Yana Laputina - TV presenter, beauty expert, writer and perfect wife. Her husband Otari Gogiberidze is not only an accomplished plastic surgeon, but also a caring man.

- Yana, your case with Otari is a vivid example of an office romance. How did you meet?

Yana:“My life was quite bright and chaotic. I have always put my career first. Of course, there were some hobbies, but the novels were so imperfect and fleeting that I stopped believing in a fairy tale with a happy ending.

Experts constantly come to our “Time with Yana Laputina” program, and Otari turned out to be one of them. When he entered the dressing room, my eyes fell on him.”

Otari:“And when I came to the program, I paid attention to Yana; at that moment she was getting her hair and makeup done in the dressing room. She gave me a rather cold look. I began to appear on the program more and more often.”

Yana:“I knew that Otari was married, so I didn’t accept advances. Unfree men are taboo for me.”

Otari:“In my line of work, I often see beautiful women. But what I saw in Yana is not in any of them. I immediately realized that this would develop into something serious.”

Yana:“Otari began to look after beautifully. He left bouquets of flowers on my car and made sure that until I discovered them, no one took the flowers before me.”

Otari:“There was no response from Yana.”

Yana:“On my birthday, in the morning, Otari came to congratulate me and, casually, showed me my passport, where there was a stamp about the divorce, which he received that same morning. But it didn’t change my attitude towards him much.”

Otari:“Then I turned on heavy defense! (laughs) There are more bouquets, and surprises more often.”

Yana:“Otar was the first man who made me believe that happiness can come from family.

At first, Otari earned me respect as a professional, which is important for me. I was also impressed by his ambition, his rather impudent gloss and that bit of cynicism that adds charm. And later I was captivated by how skillfully he looked after me.”

Otari:“On the way to work in the morning, I called my florist and discussed what the bouquet should be. Then the messengers looked for Yana in the city. Besides that, I really enjoyed arranging surprises.”

Yana:“This siege lasted about a year. We still talked a lot, often saw each other in the studio. But somehow we never met on “neutral territory.” Finally, I asked myself: “Otari Teimurazovich, why don’t you invite me for a cup of coffee?” He smiled and said that he was ready to put aside all his affairs in order to meet me in any restaurant in this city and at any time of the day or night.”

- Who came up with the idea of ​​a wedding?

Yana Laputina, Otari Gogiberidze

Otari:“Somehow both at once. The option of “just living together” is not for us.”

- Is it easy to be the wife of a Georgian?

Yana:"During our married life both the press and those around me have long attributed me to Georgian women, so I joined this hot Georgian family.

I would like to remind you: I am a Russian wife of a Georgian man. And nothing else. Although I absolutely love Georgia and everything connected with it. Extraordinarily friendly and hospitable people live there.

- Is it easy for two bright personalities to live together?

Yana:“When you yourself are an ambitious person, and when you live next to an ambitious and bright person who sets some serious goals for himself and achieves them, they admire him, they are proud of him, then it is very important to present something of yourself so as not to feel like some kind of appendage.”

- Is there room for jealousy in your home?

Yana:"In any case healthy person One way or another, jealousy is present, and sometimes I feel its stings. But if I find out that my husband is having an affair with a patient, I will understand that I made the wrong choice, because it will be too vulgar and tasteless.

Georgia is a country historically close to us, and many of its representatives live in Russia, so marriages with Georgians have long become quite commonplace. But it’s one thing to marry a Georgian who lives in our country and is generally no different from a Russian in love and life, and quite another thing to go with him to Georgia.

Before you decide to take such a step, it is worth getting to know the customs and way of life of this country better, so that living together It didn’t come as an unpleasant surprise and didn’t evoke only one desire – to go back as soon as possible. Although Georgia is close to Russia and has the same faith, it is still different in many ways, so let’s get to know the Georgians and the country itself better.

What kind of girls do Georgians like?

Like representatives of all southern nations, Georgians are very greedy for blondes, and this has nothing to do with the vulgar stereotype about “blondes”. It’s just that, whether in Georgia or in Spain, blondes are a rarity, so they are initially perceived as something exotic and therefore especially attractive.

But just being liked, and even having an affair, does not mean becoming a wife, and in order to lure a Georgian to the registry office, you will have to try hard.

First of all, keep in mind that Georgians are very loving. They simply love to communicate with women, especially beautiful ones. Flirting with a stranger, compliments at every opportunity - all this is commonplace for them, and such liberties are often allowed in the presence of their constant girlfriend. They know how to please and find the key to all people, so often within five minutes after meeting a Georgian, one gets the impression that they are old friends.

Therefore, if an avalanche of beautiful and nice words, do not rush to delude yourself and take them at face value. Georgians are literally filled with love and vitality, so they like all the girls at once, but only a few can count on the status of a legal wife. Georgian men marry only modest and decent people.

Fickle ladies, no matter how attractive they are, have practically no chance, since in this country it is customary to get married not only following the call of the heart, but also taking into account the traditions of society. First of all, this concerns the distribution of roles - the man is always in charge, so feminine, kind and compliant girls who do not strive for emancipation and manifestation of character have the best chances.

Moreover, this applies even to those Georgians who, in general, depart from the traditions of their people, since genes cannot be fooled. The main one is always a man and nothing else.

Georgians in relationships

Representatives of all Caucasian peoples court beautifully and romantically. You will constantly hear beautiful words about your appearance and charm, receive huge bouquets of roses and expensive gifts. There is never a dull moment with them, and often even excessive talkativeness and intrusiveness looks very cute and attractive.

Georgian guys constantly write SMS, often call just to talk and strive to spend all their free time together. Don’t try to calm down such hot ardor and besiege your gentleman, just let him be himself and carry you in his arms. But do not be completely deceived by such ostentatious love - after the wedding, everything can change, and as a husband, a Georgian will be harsh and demanding, constantly jealous of every pillar.

They honor the traditions of their people and are generally quite conservative people. Therefore, instead of the promised golden mountains, you can only see the Caucasus mountains and the patriarchal way of life, which seems absurd to many Russian women, especially those inclined to emancipation. Most of our girls do not want to put up with such a role in the family and begin to defend their rights, which most often ends in divorce.

At the beginning of a relationship, you don’t need to show your character, but you also don’t need to completely obey - try to respect fine line between these extremes, which will allow you to find out the true views on the life of your gentleman, and his reaction to yours. Will he accept you as you are or will he strive to remake you for himself? Is he really jealous or is he just pretending as part of a romantic game?

Before the wedding, it is very important to understand whether the groom is a hidden domestic despot, which is often found in the Caucasus. Such traits are especially evident with Russian women, who are not raised from childhood for a subordinate role.

Georgian family

Of course, for any family, the ideal option is to live in a separate house, away from parents. But the Russian bride also needs to be prepared for the fact that she will have to live in her father’s house for some time. As in all patriarchal cultures, elders are deeply respected in Georgia, regardless of their social status.

In order for a peaceful atmosphere to reign in the house, the young wife will definitely have to obey her mother-in-law in everything, always leaving her the last word. Any bickering and disputes will certainly lead to conflicts in which you will not see support from your husband, since he will always be on the mother’s side. Therefore, if you love your husband and do not want to get a divorce, you will have to be friends with his parents.

In general, kinship ties are developed in Georgian culture and families are almost always very strong. The family is sacred, as are its members. If the father dies or something else happens, the eldest brother is responsible for the unmarried sisters, and financially too. Georgians rarely go against the opinion of the family, and each marriage is considered not as a separate union, but as part of one large team. Therefore, you will have to be friends with all your brothers, uncles and the rest of your relatives.

The positive side of this arrangement is the financial side family life falls entirely on the shoulders of the man. Providing for his wife and children - all this will be his only concern; his wife will not even have to think about such issues.

Of course, if you wish, you can work, since the people of Georgia are still not the most “dense” and modern trends are not alien to them, but still men prefer caring housewives rather than wayward careerists.

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