The oath of the bride and groom for a porcelain wedding. The wedding vow is a vow of eternal love at the altar. How to make promise cards for the groom

More and more couples are ditching the registry office, opting for an outdoor ceremony that they can make just the way they want. Together with the organization and decor, the task arises to come up with what the young people will say to each other, what words they will utter at the moment of creating a family. These words are usually the most difficult to find, because they must sound sincere and reflect your feelings. We decided to help by telling you how to write a wedding vow for the bride and groom, as well as sharing a good selection of examples.

How to write the text of the oath of the bride and groom

We advise you not to take ready-made texts from the network, but to spend time and create something of your own, something that will resonate in the soul of your loved one and wedding guests. Say what seems important, there are no rules. At the same time, writing will be easier if you can follow these simple guidelines:

1. Start early! Believe me, you will redo what you have written many times, give yourself at least 3-4 weeks.
2. In order to understand what to write about, think about how your loved one makes you feel. What do you feel next to him? Who do you become in these relationships? How did you meet and understand that you cannot live without each other? What have you already done together and what haven't you done yet? How do you see your life in tens of years? What do you want to promise your soulmate? The answer to any of these questions will form the basis of your wedding vow.
3. The text of each oath should be small, for a maximum of 3-4 minutes, otherwise the effect of it will be smeared.
4. Let the vows of the bride and groom be in the same style - it's strange to listen touching words from the bride, in response to which the groom throws witticisms.
5. Do not say anything too intimate and do not mention the partner's shortcomings that give a person a lot of worries. Other people will listen to you, do not forget about it. Even if the wedding and the closest are invited, think about what you say.
6. It is desirable to beautifully arrange your words, look for inspiration for this in the next section.

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How to make an oath

In order not to forget the texts from excitement, it is better to write them down. Of course, you should not use a piece of paper for this, it is better to ask in advance to write them on beautiful design paper or in special books. Some couples after the wedding carefully draw up the texts of the vows and decorate the interior with them.

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Examples of wedding vows in movies

The series "Friends" (Monica and Chandler)

Bride's vow: I've always wondered if I could ever find my prince, my bosom friend. Three years ago, at another wedding, I asked a friend for support, but accidentally found what I had been looking for all my life. And here we are, our future is before us, and I want to spend it only with you, my prince, my soul mate, my friend. If only you want it. Your turn!

Groom's Vow: I thought this would be the hardest thing I'd ever have to do. But when I saw you walking to the altar, I realized that there is nothing easier. I love you. You are the person with whom I am destined to spend the rest of my life.

Shot from the series "Friends"

The Big Bang Theory (Penny and Leonard)

Groom's Vow: Penny, we are made up of particles that have existed since the beginning of the universe. I like to think that these atoms traveled 14 billion years through time and space to create us and so that we could be together.

Bride's vow: Leonard, you are not only the love of my life. You are my best friend. Like me for you. Do you have any problems. Me too. There is nothing I wouldn't do for you because I am your friend.

Frame from the series "The Big Bang Theory"

The film "Intruders" (Craig and Christina)

Groom's Oath: I, Craig, take you, mine best friend and my main life partner, as a wife. In sickness and health, with clear skies and heavy winds.

Bride's oath: I, Christina, marry you, my best friend and captain to be your anchor and sail, your fast yacht and safe haven.

Film American Pie. Wedding" (Jim and Michelle)

Groom's vow: You are the only woman I want to be with and the woman I can't be without. I love you.

Bride's Vow: It was hard for me to say how I feel about you. And then I realized that love is not just a feeling. Love is what you do This is a dress, a joint trip. Special haircut. Jim, you gave me everything I wanted and I solemnly swear to give everything to you.

Quotes from movies that can be used for texts of wedding vows:

• You have bewitched me, my body and soul, I love, love, love you. From this day on, I don't want to be apart from you ("Pride and Prejudice").
• I love that you get cold when it's 22 degrees outside. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that line above your nose when you look at me like I'm crazy. I like that my clothes smell like your perfume after a day together. And I love that you're the last person I want to talk to before I go to bed. And it's not because I'm single or it's New Year's Eve. I came here today because once you know you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want that rest of your life to start as soon as possible. ("When Harry Met Sally").
• True love awakens the soul, makes us strive for more, kindles a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. That's the kind of love I hope to give you ("Diary of member").
• Poets often describe love as an emotion that we cannot control and that outweighs logic and common sense. For me it is. I didn't plan to fall in love with you and I doubt you planned to fall in love with me. But once we met, it was clear that we couldn't control what was happening to us. We fell in love despite our differences. Once that happened, something rare and beautiful appeared. Such love happened only once in my life, so every minute that we spent together left a mark in my memory. I will never forget a single moment of this love ("Diary of member").
• They say that when you meet the love of your life, time stops. And it is true ("Big fish").
• Maybe I'm not a very smart person, but I know what love is. ("Forrest Gump").
• Only you I will always see. In my eyes, in my words and in everything I do ("West Side Story").

Examples of touching vows of the bride and groom

romantic vow

Bridegroom: I will carry you through life like a delicate rose. I won’t let the petals fall, I won’t let beauty fade, the leaves turn yellow. I will plant in fertile soil, I will cherish and cherish, protect from wind and cold, keep warm and good. Pour abundantly with happiness and joy, fertilize with love and care. You will blossom stronger and become more beautiful.

Bride: I will make your life better, surround you with tenderness, hug you with soft petals, caress and warm you. Our house will become a luxurious garden. Beautiful flowers will grow in the flower bed, delighting us. The garden of our family will be well-groomed, friendly and hospitable, it will be warm and cozy.

Oath to Parents

Groom: I want to say thank you to your parents for raising you, a real miracle, I promise to justify the trust by making their daughter happy. I am grateful to you that you reciprocated, believed in sincerity and agreed to become my wife. I will be a strong rear for you, a support for your parents and will keep our feelings forever.

Bride: I am happy that I will become your soulmate. I promise to share joys and sorrows, be proud of our successes and support in difficult times. I will surround you with care, and our house will be filled with comfort and kindness. Parents will be happy looking at us, and children will be proud of us.

touching oath

Groom: I met the woman of my dreams. I admire your virtues and touches your shortcomings. I promise to love your weaknesses, indulge your whims, understand mistakes and accept mistakes. You are the embodiment of beauty, kindness and wisdom. I will make your life happy and cloudless, I will become your hope and support.

Bride: I met the man of my dreams. You are strong, smart, fair. I promise to multiply your virtues and ignore your shortcomings. We will complement each other becoming better next to each other. We will confidently go through life holding hands, overcome difficulties and make our dreams come true.

An oath about the importance of meeting each other

Groom: I admire you. I want to correspond to you, to be attentive, gentle and affectionate. A chance meeting with you changed my life, I'm scared to think that we would not have met if I had not got off that day not at my stop. But this did not happen, thanks to providence for this. To all the accidents of the world I promise to make you happy!

Bride: I am happy that our chance meeting turned into love. I promise to save these feelings, to build a family on respect, understanding and support. I want to live next to you all my life, create our little empire, raise children, take care of parents. To all the accidents of the world I promise to make you happy!

Examples of comic oaths of the bride and groom

Groom: I swear to love and cherish, to be faithful and faithful. Forgive endless conversations with friends on the phone, long gatherings, suspicious looks, unsalted meatballs and iced tea. I promise to watch melodramas together, often go to visit your mother. Do not forget to give flowers on holidays and on weekdays.

Bride: I swear to be there when I'm needed and not interfere when it's not up to me. Surround you with care and love. Be attentive and delicate, do not ask uncomfortable questions. Share interests and hobbies, spend holidays together, run a common household and raise children.

Oath in verse

Groom:

I swear to love and admire you always:

When you salted the soup

I forgot to wash my clothes

After talking with a friend for two hours,

She pouted her lips, offended,

I will make you happy

So that your eyes always sparkle.

Bride:

I will forgive everything

Fishing with old friends

Lunches on the sly at mom's,

Delays sometimes from work,

About the car excessive care.

I love:

Overnight in a tent by the river

Picnics with your colleagues

I will endure your mother's moralizing,

From the late arrival I will not make drama

We'll be happy together

Loving each other more every day.

We hope that we managed to give you everything you need to write the best vows for the bride and groom. We wish you a wonderful holiday!

Top photo of Athena and Camron.

Newlyweds vow

The host addresses the bride: Swear by the arrow of Cupid,
Like Shakespeare's Desdemona
Be a faithful wife to your husband.
Bride: I swear to be his soul.

Leading: You will go with him anywhere!
Bride: Like a Decembrist wife.

Host: Wash dishes, cook food,
And give birth to a baby
Swear to wash his clothes.
Bride: I swear to take my salary.

Leading: To go forever one way,
For you to help him.
Bride: I won’t climb on my husband’s neck,
To love him forever - I swear!

Leading: Bridegroom, since you called yourself a husband,
In family matters - do not be lazy!
Do you understand how the bride needs?
Let's swear too!

Leading: Like an angel, be kind and sweet,
You didn't love anyone like that, did you?
Groom: And I will never fall in love again,
I solemnly swear in front of everyone!

Host: And if something happens,
You are her protector, you are a stronghold!
Groom: I swear to always be a support
And never argue!

Leading: To be together - what happiness,
Understand everything and forgive everything.
Both in weather and in bad weather
Love equally.
Let the festive pattern
Your life will sparkle.
We are left in chorus
Only "Bitter!" tell you!

Bride's vow

Swear always, at any cost,
Be a faithful, devoted wife.

Fashion items swear to buy
And adorn yourself with pearls.

Swear to always be cheerful
Never lose heart!

Swear you get up early
And serve breakfast to my husband.

Husband swear to friends to let go,
For fishing, football, swear not to scold.

Swear to watch serials less often.
And with friends on the phone do not "hang".

Swear to prepare a delicious dinner,
Revealing a special culinary secret.

Manicure and hairstyle swear to do you
So that the spouse sees the standard of beauty.

Swear slowly, slowly.
Have a baby every year.

Swear mother-in-law you respect
Follow her advice.

Groom's oath
The host reads the text, and the bride says “I swear”, or “I don’t want”, “I won’t”.

Swear: from work - immediately home,
Avoid strangers' women.

Swear flowers daily to give,
Husband caring, affectionate to be.

Swear irons and sockets to repair,
You swear to carry heavy bags.

Swear pearls, give diamonds
And bring coffee to bed in the morning.

Swear in the morning to get up to small children -
Give a pacifier, and change a diaper.

Swear to go fishing only with your father-in-law,
Bring the heroic catch home together.

Swear to your wife not to be jealous,
And occasionally bathe in a champagne bath.

Swear never to smoke cigarettes
Swap vodka and beer for sweets.

Swear to give your entire salary to your wife,
And do not scold her for squandering.

Swear that it would be easier for you with your wife,
Always go to your mother-in-law for advice.

Host: And now, dear newlyweds, you need to seal the oath. And at a wedding, the best seal is what? Of course, kiss. Bitterly!

Groom's oath
Are you ready to speak the truth and only the truth? Then look your wife in the eyes and swear!
Do you swear to do all your wife's errands?
Do you swear to kiss your wife in the morning instead of breakfast, in the afternoon instead of dinner, and in the evening before going to bed as a sleeping pill?
Do you swear every day to give your wife not only promises, but also flowers, compliments, gifts?
Do you swear to do all the housework, even in your sleep?
And when you have a child, do you swear to be proud of a happy father and walk important, like a goose?

Swear to control yourself
When he can in three days
Spend all your wife's money!

Groom: I swear! I will not rage, I will leave stash!

Swear you get up early
To give her coffee in bed!

Groom: I swear to walk on tiptoe so as not to wake my wife!

Swear not to offend your wife,
Eat her borscht to the bottom!

Groom: I swear to always take my wife with me to cafes and restaurants!

Swear to love your wife, caress,
Gifts often buy!

Groom: I swear that I will always love my wife, and the best gift for her is Me!

Bride's vow
Are you ready to speak the truth and only the truth? Then look your husband in the eyes and solemnly swear!
Do you swear that at any cost you will be a good and faithful wife?
Do you swear not to blow your lips against your husband, not to let the wind blow on him?
Do you swear to keep your husband from excess weight?
Do you swear to allow your husband to occasionally appear from the bedroom in other rooms?
Do you swear to let your husband go without fear for a long walk ... with a stroller?

Our love shines bright!
Do it more for me expensive gifts,
And if sometimes I run into a stash ...
I won't take it, my dear... I swear

I will not get tired of waiting for you, dear husband,
But if you come back at night... tired...
I'll deal with you in the morning..
No one can hear us baby... I swear

I swear, dear, I will not be offended by this -
If you lie down after dinner with a newspaper,
I myself will fall on the sofa to you,
We will wash the dishes together ... I swear

Now look us all in the eyes and swear together!
Swear to remember and honor your parents not only when the material crisis comes!
Swear to increase the population of our city by at least two people!
Swear that the doors of your house will always be open for friends!
This oath must be sealed with the seal of joined lips!!!

Surely, at the mention of the words “wedding vows”, many will immediately remember the shots from Hollywood films where the bride and groom exchange words of love at the altar. And almost every couple wants their marriage to be like a fairy tale. Vows are different, and the newlyweds can choose the option that suits them best. You can pronounce them not only during outdoor ceremony. Of course, if the young people want to say important words to each other in front of the registrar's desk at the registry office, this will be a little difficult. But the same exit registration, wedding and a banquet in a restaurant imply such an opportunity.

There are rules to keep in mind if the newlyweds decide they will be reciting vows.

• What are wedding vows?
• Rules for pronouncing oaths at an exit ceremony.
• How to keep wedding vows. New customs.

What are wedding vows? In films, most often the newlyweds pronounce a solemn version in front of each other. It is the best fit for an outdoor ceremony. Such oaths can also be pronounced at the registry office, but this must be agreed in advance, since all registrations are scheduled by the minute. Therefore, the registry office is not the right place to make promises. Solemn speeches are also appropriate at a banquet. The organization of such a moment must be agreed with the host.

The religious version, which, as a rule, contains passages from the Holy Scriptures, is suitable for the wedding ceremony. But the content of such oaths must first be agreed with the clergyman in order to avoid mistakes.

There are vows borrowed from favorite films. They are perfect for a themed wedding. A comic version of promises will surely amuse the guests, but, of course, on the condition that the bride and groom have artistry and a sense of humor.

The wedding vows of the bride and groom can be learned by heart, or you can insert them into beautiful covers and solemnly read them. If it is difficult to write texts yourself, you can order them on our website.

Examples of wedding vows for the bride and groom in verse

Groom's oath to the bride in verse

Our meeting is like a moment of revelation,
I still remember that day
How excited I was
And how thoughts are only about you.

I remember the main question that I asked,
How did you say "yes" to me in response,
And I want today, on the day of the wedding,
Promise that through many years

I will also love you, you hear
I will keep tenderness in my heart for you,
Our daughter, and maybe son,
Just like you, I love

I will share life with you without a trace,
Every day, every hour, every moment,
On the cheek I will stroke furtively,
When you sleep sweetly side by side,

I will become a faithful, reliable support,
And you, and our whole family,
I will shelter you from bad weather,
I will give you all my love!

The oath of the bride to the groom in verse

My beloved, to myself today
I will turn own words,
I'm glad fate
Connect us with you

That you and I found each other
Don't miss this chance
Ready to be your wife
And I want to promise now

that I will surround you with care,
With love, tenderness,
And I will support in everything willingly,
And I will keep all the joy of days,

What we will build together.
I'll be a good wife
And I will become a wonderful mother,
I'm ready all the way on earth

Walk by holding your hand
My own very man,
I don't know boredom with you
I found the answer to everything in you.

Examples of wedding vows for the bride and groom in prose

When I met you, the whole world seemed to me to be different - like a big endless holiday. Every second next to you is a real treasure. Today I solemnly swear to protect my beloved from troubles and misfortunes. Never turn away when asked for help. I promise to sincerely try not to cause you any grief. On this day, our life has become different, one for two, and I vow to go through it with you.

Now we are one family, and we have to go together along the same life path. The road is not only smooth, but also bumpy. I want my support and love to help you overcome any difficulties. The joy shared by two increases, and the sorrow shared by two decreases. I promise that I will try to make our family life bright and joyful.

Often, newlyweds think that saying a few words to each other is quite simple, and therefore do not prepare in advance. This is a huge mistake. Finding words already during the event is actually difficult, and as a result, the wedding will be ruined. Oaths are always prepared in advance. And if the young people plan to recite them by heart, a rehearsal is required before the event. But even if everything is perfectly rehearsed, it may happen that during the pronunciation of the oath, the bride or groom will forget the words from excitement. In this case, you have to improvise. It would be optimal to print the texts in advance and read them in front of each other.

Texts should not be too long. Otherwise, the guests will simply get bored. The texts of the newlyweds must be performed in uniform style(which is why it is better to order them from a professional). The bride and groom should read the oaths to each other, and not to the guests. And, of course, we must not forget about feelings. Even a broken voice and unexpected tears are better than a dry and unemotional reading. By the way, the advice to the bride is to keep a handkerchief with you just in case.

The oath of the bride and groom in the registry office and the church is pronounced after the announcement of the spouses as husband and wife. At the exit ceremony, the time for making promises is discussed in advance according to the script.

Wedding promises are an important memory to keep. They can be inserted into beautiful frame and hang it on the bedroom wall. Can be stored in a special box. You can order beautiful stylish folders for oaths. Sometimes wedding promises are accompanied by a meaningful action for those who love. For example, exchanging gifts, releasing doves or butterflies into the sky. new fashion trend it became after pronouncing oaths to plant a tree together and then look after it, watching how it grows taller and more beautiful every year.

If desired, spouses can create their own tradition - for example, read vows to each other every anniversary.

To give each other vows or not is the decision of each couple. The main thing is that the most important words always sound in the hearts.

We offer you jokes wedding vows. Such oaths are usually used during the ransom of the bride, during the exit registration or at the banquet itself after registration. You can arrange them beautifully and invite the young people to just read them at the wedding, and then they can keep it as a keepsake!

Groom's oath to the bride

Do you swear, (name), to be an exemplary husband, protector, friend, faithful helper. (- I swear!)

Do you swear, fiancé, you (name) love? Sweep floors and wash dishes? (- I swear!)
Do you swear to take care of her, Always kiss leaving for work? (- I swear!)
Do you swear to give money to your wife? (- I swear!) Swear to always be good and sweet, so that there is no room for contention, insults ... (- I swear!)

I chose my wife myself,
I swear that I will not let her offend;
I swear to take care of my wife,
Always kiss when leaving for work;
I swear I'll try vodka then
When my wife brings me a glass;
I swear, I will be the most exemplary husband:
Defender, friend, faithful helper.
Sometimes strange things happen:
The wife will spend half a paycheck on stockings.
I swear that my business is a side,
She will not leave the house in holes.
I swear to protect the interests of the family:
After all, the troubles of the wife are my troubles,
And my joy is her joy,
I promise to protect my happiness.
I swear! I swear! I swear!

Bride's oath to the groom

Do you swear, (name), do you feel sorry for your husband, be friendly, affectionate with him all your life? (- I swear!)
And after dinner, if he lies down with a newspaper, swear that you won't swear about it. (- I swear!)
Do you swear that at any cost you will be a good and faithful wife? (I swear!)
Do you swear not to blow your lips against your husband, not to let the wind blow on him? (I swear!)
Do you swear that you will cook cheesecakes more often, Pour stronger tea and sweeter? (I swear!)
Do you swear to your family and friends And to share sorrow and joy in half?

I swear all my life only (name of the groom) to love,
Friendly, affectionate, gentle to be;
I swear that at any cost
I will be a good and faithful wife.

I swear not to get angry and not to blow my lips,
I will not let the wind blow on him;
I swear to cook, bake pancakes more often,
Steeply pour tea, tastier and sweeter.

And after dinner, just lie down with a newspaper,
I swear I won't be angry about it;
I swear I'll spend my money with care
And if I borrow, then no more than a dozen.

I swear to dress him up like a picture,
On paydays, always buy a quarter.
I swear! I swear! I swear!

family constitution

Art.1. Husband and wife are obliged to increase the population of the State. Do not get carried away by quantity, fight for quality!

Art.2. With permission family conflicts the husband has every right to remain silent, tk. every word can be used against him. And the wife has a direct obligation to read him his rights and give him one phone call before using kitchen utensils (frying pan, rolling pin, etc.).

Art.3. The wife is the Minister of Finance, Health, Education, Light and Textile Industry, Internal and External Relations. The husband is the head of supply, the Minister of Fisheries, the Minister of Assembly and Finishing Works, as well as Heavy Industry and Ferrous Metallurgy.

Art.4. The husband has the right to work, the wife has the right to rest.

Article 5. The wife is the head of the tax office, and the husband is required to submit a regular income declaration. In the case of withholding legal income, the wife automatically becomes a prosecutor.

Art.6. The husband has the right to leave the family for a short time in connection with urgent events such as hunting, fishing, meeting with friends. By mutual agreement, the wife may accompany him.

Article 7. The wife is obliged to submit for consideration, and the husband is obliged to approve and approve the menu for the day. The husband can also make corrections, and the wife can also reject them and use the husband's physical strength to facilitate her work.

Art.8. The wife is obliged to ensure the cultural leisure of her husband, and he, in turn, must give the wife the opportunity to show all her pedagogical abilities.

Article 9 Both spouses are required to regularly, in the presence of witnesses, witnesses or, to put it more simply, relatives and friends, celebrate the wedding day at least once a year.

Art. last. In general, you have the right to be happy, and you must be happy.

RESOLUTION: to combine the celebration of the day of the constitution with the celebration of the day of marriage! During the celebration, guests may make proposals and amendments to this constitution in the form of toasts and proposals.

Decree

Opening the celebration
And greeting you all
We would like to be together
Bring the Decree to you.
He touches the guests -
How to behave, keep.
And, of course, this decree
Everyone must comply.
Well, first, to the wedding
was merry,
It is necessary that the whole estate
Ate and drank a lot.
Stealing a bride is a custom
But we immediately say -
Stealing is not a fight, but decently,
How to take a fifth.
You can take the shoes off the bride
Only with cunning, with the mind,
And again, carefully
And not at the table.
Kohl stolen, your price
Should be announced immediately
And our bride is not allowed
Keep barefoot for half an hour.
And the bride, shoes too.
It's not good to steal twice
So that you are not more expensive
Don't take the groom at all!
Well, if you are not timid,
The shoe was stolen, moreover,
Drink not from shoes, from a pile,
Perched above the heel.
And, of course, this stack,
Having appeased dashing guests,
According to the people's will
The witness drinks, not the groom!
Place for honeymooners
No one to occupy.
Well, for the bride and groom,
For the Decree, please raise!