How to know if a guy loves you

Any girl in this world would like to know for sure that the guy next to her loves her very much. But how can such confidence appear if asking about it directly is somehow wrong? And the young man himself does not speak and most likely is also embarrassed to confess his feelings.

In our opinion, the only point that will help in clarifying the situation is to watch the guy.

At the moment when we do not want to talk about our feelings, our behavior can give them away. It always strives to demonstrate that a person is dear to us and being with him is a pleasure. Because we constantly think about it.

This can happen to anyone, as well as your boyfriend. And since he was not trained as a child to serve in the intelligence agencies, he will definitely betray his feelings. And you need to watch carefully for his behavior.

How to know if a guy loves you?

How accurate and true is the expression: "My tongue is my enemy." But for now, we'll draw an analogy with your boyfriend. The fact that he will be an enemy, you - the best friend. Delve into his words and try to remember what his love betrays:

The guy's words are overflowing with warmth and tenderness, so that your heart begins to shrink. Sometimes you even catch yourself thinking that no young man has ever spoken to you with such warmth and tenderness.
It is logical that in his communication with you there are no swear words. And yes, a large number of guys abuse such buzzwords. I don’t know how, but as soon as the first word breaks out in front of you, it’s as if swear words can no longer be stopped.
The guy talks about his plans for the future life, and the main place is reserved for you there. In the role of an adored wife and mother of beautiful children. His children. And he does not even imagine a different fate, if you are not present in one.
Needless to say, he had already visited beautiful places. And in his favorite ones, those that he especially remembered in a special way, he wants to show you. Makes plans for a trip and tries to convince you that this is the best place in the world.
He takes an interest in your life more than your own mom. And if mothers usually limit themselves to questions about whether you have eaten and whether everything is fine with you at school and work, then a loving guy will never stop on such a list of questions. He will ask everything: how did your childhood go, how do you see your life in old age, what would you like to spend the weekend, why don't you eat seaweed - it is very good for health! He is like a child from the TV program "I want to know about everything!". And at the same time you feel that the guy is not lying. He is really interested in all the moments connected with you.
And most importantly, everything he asked you - perfectly remembered. It is possible that you yourself forgot how you once told him about red gloves, but he remembered and gave it. In addition, he perfectly remembers both your birthday and other important dates for you. He does not need to repeat that today he should go to your father's anniversary - he remembered this and a few days before the start he asked his boss for time off.

Thus, he asks you everything and remembers, as if an FSB agent, but in fact, he just loves you very much, and tries to do everything so that your everyday questions and plans are the same. Look, or rather listen to his intonation, questions and words, and you will understand how he treats you.

Of course, he often compliments you. He likes everything about you: from your smile to your behavior and way of thinking. He seems to be following all your words, will listen to you carefully and watch with genuine interest.

So the moment has come that can help find out what his gaze in your direction means, and how a guy in love should look.

How to tell if a guy loves you by the look in his eyes

It happens when you suddenly turn in his direction, you suddenly realize that at that moment he was secretly looking at you. The guy can get embarrassed, turn away and say something inappropriate. He wanted to be invisible in his contemplation of your beauty.

His eyes glow with tenderness, and he himself happily admits that he cannot take his eyes off you.
His gaze is not irritated when you make any mistakes that are typical for you as a girl. Words that I read in one of the books pop up in my memory. There, the guy called his beloved "cactus" because of her ability to get into stupid and strange situations.
My boyfriend confirms that "cactus" is a good definition that perfectly characterizes all girls. Your boyfriend won't frown or get stern when you say something wrong when you meet his friends.
He loves you if he looks at your cat without malice. Wants to accept everything that is dear to you, even if he is allergic to cats.

Here's how, by watching his words and look, you can find out if your boyfriend likes you or uses you to pass the time. There is also another point worth paying attention to. Words are just words, but his actions and deeds also show us the real picture.

How to know if a guy loves you by his actions

You can tell a lot about a guy by his actions. Since, you can chat for a long time, but do nothing at the same time. But if your boyfriend loves you, then he will show his love through actions. Below you will read what guys really do when they love:

I hope young people will excuse me for my words, but how annoying they are with too much attention! Most likely, and that you do not have time to answer his SMS. He sends them because you forbid calls during work.
He will help you in any situation. Even if you call him at night just to talk or ask for his help, since your car has broken down. You call him, and you understand that this is the only and right decision.
If you suddenly get sick, you don't have to worry. He will buy pills, fruit and visit you.
He loves to spoil you with pleasant little things. And you keep these gifts because they were given with love.
He likes to organize, or at least he comes to your aid in organizing various events - from daily walks to the store to planning your vacation together.
Jealousy overcomes him at the sight of how your ex greets you. Give him free rein, he would drive the former out of the country.
Naturally, the guy who loves you does not allow himself to hang out with another girl. No way. Your relationship is very dear to him in order to change your beloved for other girls. Yes, and he is no longer so fun and good with them.

How to tell by gestures that a guy loves you

Gestures are the best tool for psychologists. With the help of them, it is easy to guess whether he loves you or touches you, because decency requires it:

He won't pat you on the back like his friends. On the contrary, even in a playful moment, the guy always knows about unequal forces.
Your boyfriend takes your hand or often hugs you in the company of your friends. He likes it, you also enjoy it, girlfriends look with envy, so everything is in business.
The best gesture, most noticeable in any couple, is if, after intimacy, your young man does not run away from the bed to the shower room, but, on the contrary, you still bask in each other's arms for a long time.

How to know if a guy loves you. Divination

Let's remember why we fell in love with daisies from childhood. The process of fortune-telling on “likes or dislikes” was in the life of almost all little girls. And even now, if you take a flower and tell fortunes with its help, the result of fortune-telling will give you more strength or it can plunge you into despondency. Thus, we gradually come to magical rituals.

So, there are different ways to find out if he loves you or not:

You need to take a thread and a ring. You will need to thread a thread through the ring and ask a question that concerns you. During fortune-telling, you should be alone. If the ring begins to rotate in the direction of the hands of the clock, the answer is positive, that is, “yes”. If against the direction of the hands of the clock, then most likely this guy does not like you.
I will tell you about one more very interesting and symbolic fortune-telling - by matches. As they now describe the method on fortune-telling sites: you need to put 2 matches in a box and fix them, then set them on fire. If the matches after burning will tend to each other - get ready for the wedding. And in my youth with my girlfriends I did it in a slightly different way. She took a match, set it on fire and immediately pressed it into the surface of the tree. The match was rooted to the spot, I did the same procedure with the 2nd match. Then she set fire to them and watched whether they would bow or disperse. Sometimes a match could not stand and often fell. And this was a sign that this process should be postponed until the next day.
Divination on coffee grounds is also common. There are many different books with a detailed description of the divination process. You can also go to fortune tellers, because they are smart - they will come up with and tell you how wonderful everything is in your life.
Card fortune-telling can sometimes reveal amazing facts, if at the same time you are with a good fortune-teller.
There is also a good divination called “Mirror Corridor”. A very creepy ritual, with which fantastic, and maybe real stories are associated. Basically, this fortune-telling is done on Christmas night, but it can be done on any other nights. If you are a girl with weak nerves, then here's a great piece of advice for you - do fortune-telling on daisies. Instructions for divination - “Mirror corridor”: You need to be in the room alone, turn off the light, you need to light candles on the sides of the mirror. The mirror must be large. You need to stand in front of the mirror and send another mirror into it, it will turn out, as it were, a corridor. Next, you should ask the question of interest to the mirrors and wait. In a few minutes you will be able to see a shape at the end of the corridor, this is your future boyfriend. It will head towards you through the mirror tunnel. When you see his face, immediately turn away and turn on the light. Terrible events tell that a hand can grab you from the mirror or even pull you into the corridor.

How to know if a guy loves you at 18

Very often, guys and girls who have recently graduated from school do not try to hide their feelings. This is characteristic of them, because in life they have not yet encountered a large number of disappointments. Thus, they do not need torture, they themselves can easily confess their love.

If the character of the guy is secretive by nature, then he most likely will not say anything about his feelings. He is jealous, feels anger that you cannot guess about his feelings, but is silent. Although, even in this case, you have every chance to reveal his attitude towards you by directly observing his behavior.
The hasty recognition of the guy is also connected with the fact that the time for military service is coming up. Because any boy would like his girl to send him love letters and faithfully wait from the army.
He dedicates poems to you and gets offended for no reason.
He will be jealous of other guys and make scandals because of this.

Any man has the talent to conquer the girl he likes. We need to admire his speeches and exploits.

When a man sees that he is loved and admired, he can do anything and become a millionaire if he wants to. He will be able to give you even more love and tenderness, and you will feel even more beloved and unique girl. This is a necessary rule for harmonious relationships. If this rule is neglected, a prosperous family life cannot be built.

The more things a guy does for you, the more he tries to put his feelings and soul into you. You need to learn to thank a man for everything he does for you. To be the one for which he will move mountains.

It's time to be able to feel the love of a partner and give it. And if you think that your boyfriend pays little attention to you, is rude to you and spends a lot of time in the company of friends - this is definitely your fault. Once you interrupted his passion to do something nice for you. But it's not too late to get it all back. Give him more love, tenderness, affection and care - and he will again reach out to you. I am sure that you will apply my advice and they will really benefit your relationship and you will no longer have to be in search of an answer to the question: “How do I know that a guy loves me?”