Signs of a weak man

The current trend is that weak men are much more common than brave knights. Women have only two options - to help the dreamy prince turn into a macho or to become strong herself.

How to recognize a weak man

Any girl dreams of meeting a strong and determined life partner who will save her from problems and worries, and not create new difficulties. Knowing this trend, weak men have learned to disguise themselves, and therefore their true nature may not be revealed immediately. In order not to fall into the trap, you need to remember the following signs of male weakness:

Indecision. This shows up even in small things. For example, in a cafe, he can study the menu for a long time, not daring to stop at a particular dish or drink for a long time.
Inability to keep up a conversation. If in a dialogue with a man you have to constantly look for a way out of awkward pauses, you should be wary.
Lack of career ambitions. Weak men often work not where they pay well, but where they are calm and have a minimum level of responsibility.
Slow response. A man does not know how to quickly make a decision not only in stressful, but also in ordinary everyday situations.
Has bad habits. Most men with a weak character are addicted to cigarettes and alcoholic beverages.
Not in a hurry to legitimize the relationship. A marriage proposal from such a man can only be achieved after a series of persistent hints.

A few more distinguishing features

Armed with some knowledge, you can easily determine that a weak man is next to you. The signs are the following:

It is characterized by sacrifice. A man tries to please everyone (or cannot refuse to fulfill other people's requests). This is usually done for the sake of everyone's approval.
Dislikes change and conflict. And this also applies to positive changes in life. A weak person likes to be in the "comfort zone", even if it is characterized by not the most favorable conditions.
Suppresses your emotions and feelings. Weak people are afraid to show their state of mind. They prefer to experience all the joys and troubles within themselves.
They love women's company. In a male company, where everyone is successful and ambitious, it is difficult for such people. But with the ladies, they quickly establish friendly relations.

Classification

Are men weak? In practice, yes. However, not all of them are the same. We can distinguish the following types of weak men:

Sissy. It is a sacrifice of motherly love. Being under the influence of an authoritarian woman, he cannot take a single step on his own. In addition, it becomes a serious barrier to building your own family.
Relaxed. This is a person who is unable or unwilling to take responsibility. Weakness is just a mask that allows a person to stay in the comfort zone.
can be successful and active in work and hobbies. But when it comes to women, all courage and determination instantly disappear.
Sensitive. This is creative nature. A man is sensitive to all sorts of experiences. However, that doesn't mean he's a jerk. By building with a woman, a person can open up in a new way.

Why do men become weak?

Be that as it may, a man is born with all the characteristics inherent in him by nature, inherent in the stronger sex. To turn into a weak and spineless person, you need to go a long way, being under the influence of the following factors:

Upbringing. Usually weak men grow up in families where everything is run by a mother with a tough authoritative character.
Father problems. If dad was too scandalous and cruel, the boy, as a rule, does not want to be like him. As a result, with age, a man becomes more spineless.
Relationships with friends. From childhood, subjected to ridicule and mockery of peers, by a conscious age, a man acquires a lot of complexes.

Why are there so many weak?

Increasingly, women complain that men have become weak. But in fact, there is a historical explanation for this. Here are just some of the factors that psychologists focus on:

War. The First and Second World Wars claimed many lives. As a result, the concentration of the male population decreased to 20%. Naturally, many children were left without a hard father's upbringing. Despite the fact that a lot of time has passed, it left its mark on today's generation.
Transition to an industrial society. Previously, boys from childhood were involved in field work, where they adopted male experience from their grandfathers and fathers. Today this tradition is almost completely exhausted.
Education from women. Kindergarten teachers, school teachers, teachers in secondary and higher educational institutions... The vast majority of them are women. Naturally, boys (future men) adopt their behavior pattern.
Feminism. The active struggle of women for their rights has been very successful. But not only social activities were actively engaged in ladies. They taught children to be different from their fathers.

If a weak and a strong man compete in some issues, in 99% of cases the winner will be the second one. Therefore, representatives of the first category immediately need to change something in themselves. To become strong, you should listen to these recommendations:

Change your lifestyle. It is worth starting the transformation with changes in appearance, daily routine and even diet. Particular attention should be paid to physical activity, which will help develop endurance.
Learn to make your own decisions. This does not mean that you cannot consult with anyone. But do not try to shift responsibility for what is happening to someone.
Overpower yourself. Having defeated your own weaknesses, you will easily resist even the strongest opponents.

From a weakling to a loser one step

It extends to all spheres of his life. That is why such people often become real losers. This is manifested in the following characteristics:

Feels sorry for himself. Instead of fighting failure, a man actively looks for excuses.
Constantly points the woman "in her place." This is a kind of self-affirmation.
Inability to handle money. A man does not have the skills to plan his budget. Thus, he spends more than he earns, and constantly finds himself "in the red."
Thinks life is a game. If it is not possible to play in reality, a person is immersed in a virtual environment.
Can't let go of the past. In particular, a man carefully stores old and unnecessary things.
He exaggerates the severity of his own ailments. A minor cold or headache turns into a real tragedy for a man.

Weak man - aggressive man

A weak man can be identified not only on the basis of known characteristics, but also by comparison with other members of the stronger sex. Based on such observations, the same conclusion always suggests itself. A weak man always blames a woman. Moreover, it may not be any specific person, but a collective image. That is, all the fair sex.

Failure at work? Blame the women who poke their noses everywhere and get into personal relationships. Again, the fault lies with the women who have become corrupt and unfaithful. Even if a man stumbles or breaks a cup, the blame will be on the women. And if such a man has a wife, she runs the risk of becoming an object of aggression. Weaklings often assert themselves by suppressing their life partner. Often there are cases of assault.

Is there a chance for personal happiness?

If a weak man, what to do with this problem? Is there a chance for personal happiness? Yes, if you find the right woman who has the "mommy" type. Her parental instinct extends beyond the children. Such a woman feels an inner need to take care of everyone and everything. Naturally, courting and pitying her weak man will not be a torment for her, but a real pleasure and an opportunity to realize her life purpose. The result is harmonious and warm relationships within the family.

Infantilism and weakness are not the same

Men are much more likely to be infantile than women. No wonder they say that they remain small children for life (even in extreme old age). These types of people are characterized by the following features:

modesty and shyness, inability or unwillingness to engage in serious matters;
silence or inability to express one's thoughts (moreover, this manifests itself only in a public setting, and not among friends);
a tendency to tomfoolery (frivolous behavior can be seen both in informal and business settings);
inability to behave seriously in relations with the opposite sex (which often annoys girls).

Of course, infantes are weak. But this is not the rule. Often, men who behave like children can gather their will into a fist and make a strong-willed decision when circumstances so require.

Conclusion

Is there a future for a weak man? The first option is to connect your fate with a woman with a pronounced maternal instinct. This will be the key to personal happiness, but as for the business sphere, there can be no talk of any success. The family idyll will consist in complaining to your spouse and getting the necessary dose of sympathy from her. Of course, such a state of affairs will suit someone and become a kind of "comfort zone" and a guarantee of stability. But, unfortunately, weak men are rarely happy. In order to be successful with women and achieve peaks in work, you need to work on yourself, eradicating "feminine" qualities.