How I want to be weak. How to be a weak woman? All my men
How I want to be weak, defenseless,
Suddenly fall into a faint for no reason,
And on the chest of a strong man
Cry and complain heartily.
Do not rush to work early in the morning
In the stream of pedestrians and cars,
And plunge into a sweet slumber,
Taking care of the absence of wrinkles.
Throwing a transparent drapery,
Confidently chatting about nothing
Helplessly bow your head
On a strong reliable shoulder.
With your beloved, go out fragile, touchy,
And look like an angel in the flesh
Accidentally tuck your leg on a stiletto,
So that he can carry you in his arms.
Turn pale, blush, get scared and get lost,
Suffer, panic and not decide
Hope, listen and obey,
Breathe, smell and relax.
Forgetting the lessons of all emancipations,
I will reveal to men our secret:
We too can seem weak
But we don't have time for that...
Two hearts with the same disease
And two souls intertwined into one ...
Wandering alone before
In love with the moon since birth.
The madness of a lonely flight
This look is filled with animal savagery..
They've been breathing for someone all their lives
And the fall of the leaves wept with their tears...
Both suffocated under the white snow,
And they waited for the hated spring ...
To bloom once for someone
And the sinful flowers withered again ...
In the autumn rain they beat against the windows,
Whispered bitter, .. but tender words..
They were looking for someone on earth
To go to heaven together...
Falls, ups, misses, mistakes
They weren't broken looking for love
They did not believe in the plots of a stupid book,
Where it was said that happiness cannot be found ...
They've been through a lot... and wounds
Still bleeding...
But there was no finer reward for them
In the crowd to see that similar look ...
They are not close, but forever together,
Forever their beating in unison ...
Two hearts... with the same disease
Disappear together, turning into a dream
Olga Kolomenskaya
I think of you…
I know you are very busy
But every crystal night
Having prophesied miracles for himself,
I think of you…
I'm happy that you are...
So dear to my heart...
Like a door opened
To the world where flowers and childhood...
I'm happy that you are...
I feel your pain...
I know how tears choke
When suddenly kindred spirits
They say you don't need...
I feel your pain...
I pray to heaven for us...
Let our hope come true...
Let the world become a drop more beautiful ...
Let the darkness forget yesterday ...
I pray to heaven for us...
I just love you…
Fading from tenderness ...
At the very edge of heaven...
I walk next to you...
I just love you…
The weaker sex is strong due to the weakness of the stronger sex to the weaker sex.
"Pshekrui"
Weakness attracts strength. A weak woman attracts a strong man. Sounds tempting. But how to be a "weak" woman in the conditions of modern capitalism with an "inhuman" face, when you need to survive and fight back, work with your elbows and move over corpses. AS? While she thinks about it, they will eat it, deceive it, set it up! not she them, so they her!
In the cruel, fast-paced world of ever-increasing corruption at all levels of life, a woman is trapped in envy and cunning, deceit and cruelty. And what is left for her? Claws biting into life and tearing off pieces from it to feed herself and her children, whom she often brings up alone, the modern business woman has learned to be strong. And even very strong. So strong that an ordinary average man seems next to her a weakling and a loser. And if his conscience allows him, he hides under her wing, if pride allows, he becomes henpecked, but if not, then he retreats away.
They are interested in her, she turns on, attracts, attracts, but it’s hard to deal with her, she is a competitor, she requires a high level of communication. And it's stressful.
With a woman, you want to relax and not think about your perfection. Sometimes you really want her to look into his mouth and consider it a demigod that he is ready to find someone simpler and forgive her lack of brains and a bad figure. Only to be the leader, the leader, who decides everything and everything. And to be stronger for the simple reason that he is a man. So he prefers "weak" and "stupid".
And with the "strong" remains friends. It is not easy with her, because she herself has learned to make decisions and take responsibility for herself. And sometimes he does it much better than a man.
But what is she? She, poor thing, finds herself all alone in her heroic self-sufficiency.
And she, by the way, just wants love, like every person on earth. Because with all her strength, intelligence and enterprise, she still remains a woman.
With invariable feminine weaknesses and tricks, sweet habits and words, with a lullaby that sounds in her in rare moments of inner tenderness, with all her little feminine traits, thrust so far into the deepest depths of her being that you will not find.
A modern woman, preoccupied with her career and active advancement in life, takes men's places and plays men's roles, and to some extent she herself expels real men from her life.
In fact, why does she need them if she is both a Swiss, a reaper and a gambler on the pipe. And at the same time, she manages to learn three languages, give birth to a child, build her body and business, and even form her own completely original and deep inner spiritual world.
She, according to an old school habit, does all this so diligently, not allowing herself to relax and dismiss nurses, that she does not notice how tender her weak spots and the dashes are gradually filled with lead and become stronger than any armor. And flowers cannot grow through this armor. Because they are gentle...
The complexity of the situation lies in the fact that the more our heroine will bite into life, the more violently life will separate her from the simple womanish happiness that she longs for in the depths of her soul, no matter what. And worthy like no other. Happiness, where a woman is supposed to be the way God originally created her. Weak, tender, compassionate and kind, requiring care and love.
In order to protect herself from life, she becomes hardened, but this separates her from the life stream in which she is destined to swim and enjoy this process, fulfilling her mission and taking her place. It becomes heavy, iron and cold and can regain lightness only by radically changing its worldview.
At first glance, this seems impossible. And why? Do not go down to the level of losers? Do not give up the positions that she won on her own and with such difficulty!
Of course, don't give up! There is another, more human way to bring her back to life.
To do this, she just needs to allow herself to be weak! It’s like learning it all over again, as if nothing had happened, starting from a blank sheet.
- At least once a day you need to allow yourself complete helplessness which requires outside intervention. Better from a man. This mobilizes him and gives the woman a pleasant feeling of complementarity. Yes, it is not easy for modern women to let life moments that she is used to carefully control over take their course. Yes, she herself knows how to repair tanks and negotiate, sign contracts and change gaskets in taps. Not to mention hammering nails and screwing in light bulbs. But why? Why should she grab onto everything if there is a convenient opportunity to demonstrate, and most importantly, feel her helplessness. In general, this is a very good indicator if she has such small secret "weak spots" that she is used to hiding. Now they need to be revealed to the world. Let everyone see that she has them. This will give her a bit of fragile feminine charm. And it will attract those who are ready to protect this beauty!
- You need to learn how to ask for help. The thing is sometimes unthinkable for self-sufficient people who consider themselves docks in any matters. But, First of all, it is impossible to be absolute docks in everything, but, Secondly, the one who asks for help indirectly speaks of his imperfection, which means that he is a living person, the same as everyone else. And that you can approach it and find the key. And even become necessary. This is it is so important, especially for a man, to be necessary for a woman . This mobilizes him, elevates him in his own eyes. This inspires and arouses interest in those who need this help. There is a certain psychological law of our attraction to those whom we have helped. We are always interested in how our word will respond, and how our work will be useful. Remember what you like to do more, give gifts or receive them? Surely you enjoy doing good to someone. So put yourself in the place of that man who will have such a happy opportunity - to be your assistant or savior.
- Stop taking the exam for excellence. It's impossible to be perfect in everything. Relax. Allow yourself to be a little lazy, to be lazy. Forget about the tight schedule you've squeezed your life into. Look at it, whether there is a place for a man in it, and for love in the version that can be. When you gladly allow yourself to give him all your time without a trace, you will become in demand. At least for a while, but try to feel your own need for another person. Sometimes businesswoman so preoccupied with the pressing working moments of her survival that she does not allow herself to live. Relax, just relax. Go shopping like a normal person, chat with a friend, lie on the couch with a book. In the end, it is sometimes useful to remember what all this boron cheese is for. Where are we all rushing, striving, why all this? And when will we start to just live? Maybe do it right now, without delay?
How to become a weak woman so that a real, strong man appears next to you, about whom you dream so much?
Every business woman has her own way. And this path is only a movement towards oneself, one's feminine nature, one's destiny. Each of us knows it and feels it. Only for some reason violently resists this knowledge.
Now, weigh all the pros and cons. And think that you have already been strong and self-sufficient. Maybe stop playing other people's games! It's time to try yourself in the role of a simple woman, weak and vulnerable, without an iron shell. A woman who remembers the lullaby of her soul. And it needs protection.
Probably many are familiar with such a joke: “I so want to be a weak woman, but as luck would have it, the huts are on fire, then the horses are galloping!”.
Of course, this does not apply to all women, but it so happened historically that we take on a lot. We shoulder not only our own, women's, but also men's duties on our fragile shoulders.
How it exhausts us, there is irritation on men that they are irresponsible, not caring, etc.!!! You have to take everything into your own hands. And since the Universe is very wise, then " May it be to you according to your faith»!
Why, one wonders, after such requests from our side, a man should strain at all: “Darling, you yourself are “strong”, you can handle everything yourself. And I’d rather watch football, drink beer, ”the men argue. But this is only one of the options, and there are many.
herself like this
Once upon a time, I reasoned like that, and took on too much, and complained about men. And I came across not caring, and you won’t wait for gifts, and they don’t know how to earn money! Well, I had to do everything yourself.
And take care of yourself, and help yourself, and earn money. A convincing conclusion was made: I choose the wrong men! I forgot how to take care, I just didn’t notice it around. I can do everything myself!!!
Men were classified according to the type “my man”, if he shows attention and care, then if it ends at some stage, then this is “not my man”. So I lived with the conviction that I come across wrong men.
Although I read a bunch of books, watched various webinars, somewhere in my mind I understood that the reason was in me too. I worked on myself, I even started to change something in my picture of the world, and already men began to come across more caring, but something was missing for me to fully understand my problem at that time. Until I got to the Institute of Reincarnation and had a consultation with the captain.
All my men
During the consultation, several requests were worked out, one of which - relationships with men. There was and the session lasted more than three hours.
Consultant Natasha collected all the information from me about my relationships with men, different situations from life. Different realizations came, both looking through this life, and realizations from the world of souls.
I will not describe everything that I managed to see, but there is one key moment which changed my idea of myself and men in general. And that's what prompted me to write this story.
By the way, we found out that one of my purposes in this life is use your feminine energy, and that my main cash flow is through men.
And all my life I used just mostly masculine energies in myself, I just didn’t know how take care of men. It was really difficult for me to ask men for something. Suddenly they will refuse (strings stretch from childhood). Moreover, I can do everything myself!
And this is what happened: Natasha heard in my stories that I often repeat “my man”, “not my man”. And she offered such an alternative: Imagine that all men are Yours!!!
Just guess and try to see in every man potential assistant, without expecting anything from him, just radiate your feminine energy - the way you can. She shared her examples from life, how she worked on herself.
In general, I am a Practitioner by nature, I always try to check knowledge in action. Here, too, it was not long in coming. I registered inside myself that all men are mine, I presented and most importantly believed it!
How did I feel good from this thought! This became my resource state when translating this idea into reality.
Miracles are everywhere
Almost the next day, miracles began. In general, they always happen, we just often do not notice them in our daily worries.
First, I started asking a man, with whom I was then in a relationship, about almost every little thing, trying not to turn on my mind, so that he would not lead me into doubt again that I myself can do it
And in almost all cases, he did not refuse me. And I even noticed that his shoulders straightened when I said that I want you to do this, because you are better at it than I am.
Well, there are such women's tricks, there is also a lot of information about them on the Internet. She could ask for money without trembling in her knees. In short, I applied the received realizations in practice.
But I especially want to tell you about one day that happened somewhere on the 2-3 day after the consultation.
I went to Moscow. Heavy bag. I am alone, by myself, without an assistant.
I got to the bus stop. The one I needed arrived, I went to the door and ....
Before, I would have started dragging this suitcase into the minibus myself, but there were men nearby. Something no one was eager to help me, but now I can ask !!!
And I asked the man closest to me, he seemed to be sleeping and woke up. Of course, of course, he says, he was in his thoughts. I took this moment with joy. It was the only time that day that I had to ask.
I went to Moscow by car, I got on a minibus to get to the appointed meeting point with the car. I arrived in Moscow, and then sheer miracles began, there is no other way to call it.
I went down to the subway, I'm carrying a suitcase on wheels, but it's heavy. And men began to open the doors in front of me - both young and adults. I didn't even touch any of the doors.
Climbing stairs with a suitcase, if there was no escalator somewhere, did not exist for me at all. For some reason some male hand always grabbed my suitcase at the bottom of the steps, and I walked light.
The resource state turned on, I smiled from ear to ear and thanked everyone around and the Universe. I had a friend with me, she made surprised eyes and said: “Does this happen?”. This happened several times while we were getting to the right station.
Then I got on the train and left for the Moscow region. When I got off at the right station, I found that I got off alone, no one was around. And it was necessary to climb the high stairs, cross the railway tracks and go down. Well, I think I'll have to.
Going up to the stairs, I wanted to pick up the suitcase, suddenly I hear a voice from behind: “Let me help you.” I turned around: a man was standing. Where did he come from? But before I had time to think, he was already climbing the stairs with my suitcase. I followed him like crazy. Wonders!!!
He lowered my suitcase, I thanked him, and he just smiled. I went to the taxi stand, I had to get to the place, and suddenly it started to rain.
There were no cars, but there was a man in the parking lot first in line for a taxi, and I just thought: if only he let me go ahead, I didn’t have an umbrella. A car drove up, but he did not let me through, he went himself.
I already wanted to accept, but suddenly the driver got out of the car and asked where I should go. I answered and he asked the man to wait for the next car, because he was going in my direction. A minute later I was already sitting in the car and just stunned with a smile on my face!
to be a woman
I got involved in this game, I liked being a Woman, I began to observe myself more often, pay attention to men just as Men. I changed my beliefs, expanded my worldview and attitude. I studied my past incarnations in male bodies, tried to understand what men feel, what they think about, what they want.
My acquaintance with the method of reincarnation turned my whole life upside down, in good sense this word. More than six months have passed since that incident. And miracles continue.
Now I can call myself happy woman!!! I enjoy being taken care of by men almost everywhere I go: at home, on the street, while traveling.
At the moment I am not working, but doing my favorite thing, I am studying at the Institute of Reincarnation in the 2nd year. And my cash flow is now from a man and from another source. But that is another story. And then we'll see!
How much we women forget that we should just be happy And we don't owe anyone anything! That duty and duty are purely masculine energy.
And how, sometimes, shifting male responsibilities to ourselves, we simply lose this female energy and cannot radiate it. Then we accuse the men of inattention, that they do not notice us, do not care about us.
And they just do not feel needed, they do not understand what to do, there is no call to action. Because we smell like “masculine”, sorry for such a comparison. But unless a man wants to do something for a man, a man himself can do it.
Now I understand that first of all we need to remember that we are Women, what we really want. And before blaming men for their mortal sins, you need to look at yourself and ask the question: “What am I doing to be treated differently?”
This, at first glance, is difficult, but it is also simple. And most importantly, IT IS POSSIBLE. Love yourself, let men take care of you! Smile more often! Happiness to you, Women!
