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What kind of man do I need

April 2017

And again, I raise the topic of women, eternal and often insoluble. This does not mean at all that men do not have questions about the chosen one, but according to my very modest observations of men in their own consulting practice, they are embarrassed to think about it, let alone talk about it out loud. But female nature is such that we are looking for our man, for us it is a matter of the survival of our children, which means that we are responsible not only for ourselves, but also for future generations.

Here is a strange thing, we are growing up, we see a lot of male characters, types, it is obvious that some leave us indifferent, others cause denial, third interest, fourth desire to get carried away and be his chosen one. But this does not mean at all that we have any idea what kind of man we need. And if you don’t believe me, then look at the divorce statistics, on average in the world every third marriage does not live up to its 10th anniversary, in Russia every second marriage breaks up. It is obvious that we do not part from a good life, in most cases because it is difficult for us to understand each other, over time the distance begins to grow, and the recognition of “our” in it disappears ....

Do you need to understand at all what you expect from a relationship with a man, that is, what qualities should be present in him in order for you to be comfortable? If you are accustomed to experiments, you still have a lot of vitality and you are ready to just fall in love, and then come what may, then you can do without any analysis, because the heart is an authoritative landmark, but not always the most productive. However, the mind can also easily fail, because life is not mathematics, sometimes two plus two in it is not four at all, so the approach should be combined, without soloing the mind or heart, let them be in harmony.

But astrology tells us very well about our harmony. It is clear that taking and examining a single horoscope will not be at all indicative, therefore in this article I will give universal theses, that is, the characteristics of a man are given by me from the solar sign of a woman, and it is better even if you read for the sign of your ascendant (if you know it) .

ARIES WOMAN

A woman of this type is very suitable for men who are less active and lighter in temperament. If you really have the power of Mars, then you don’t need a male leader, otherwise there will be more than one leader in your pair, and you don’t feel sorry for your competitors and don’t really like them. Therefore, you should pay attention to men who know how to get along, are more diplomatic and tactful than you. Of course, you need a man who will bring constancy and stability to your life, but at the same time he will not blame you for your impulsiveness and harshness. He should not be a soft and dependent person, you will quickly cease to respect such people, but you also don’t need conservatives, because you are a woman of an independent character and unpredictable behavior. Alternatively, look for an adventurer for yourself, but remember that the initiative in your couple should belong to you, because the man should be more inspired than an inspirer. You are very fond of taking risks, driving cars and getting into fights, albeit verbal ones. That's what, but your man should not have the same weaknesses and, on the contrary, be so impartial as to quickly prevent the flames of conflict arising in you with one of his indifferent glances.

Do not look for passion or seething energy in a man, you will quickly get tired in the arms of this fiery engine. Looking for someone who is sociable good feeling humor and low self-esteem. It is desirable that he loves to be and live in one place and calmly endure the routine, but endure cardinal changes painlessly, having a sincere interest in them.

TAURUS WOMAN

You are a person who is accustomed to standing firmly on his feet, who loves to eat deliciously, dress well, have strong but spacious walls to maintain his peace and comfort. Your life is very measured and predictable, it's no secret that you yourself make it so. For complete happiness, you lack constancy in relationships and its physical side. So the first criterion for you should be the temperament of the chosen one - it’s great if he is full of strength, healthy and wants the same. Sex is an important part of your life, like all physical pleasures in general. At the same time, in men you like efficiency and a rational approach to money, but you shouldn’t be greedy or even tight-fisted with you, you definitely won’t like it if they start saving on you. It’s great if a man is not obsessed with healthy lifestyles and sports, because the most delicious food is also the most unhealthy, but you really like to pamper yourself and experience special pleasure by pampering your chosen one. That is, look for a man who is generous, but economic, passionate, but not carried away, kind, but not naive.

Your man should take care of the prosperity in the family and prioritize the needs of you and your children. You can provide a person with a respectable life, excellent cuisine and an amazing vacation from career storms, but for this a man must definitely have above-average ambitions and be very efficient. At the same time, you will be appointed as an accountant in the family and you will not give this prerogative to anyone. It is desirable if, as a sign of his devotion and great love, a man will make you expensive gifts. No matter how embarrassed you are, you love an expensive, comfortable life, and if a man can provide it, then he will obviously be respected and appreciated by you.

WOMAN-TWINS

You must have been called special windy, frivolous at least once in your life. Do not be offended, but you have these qualities, although you are an analyzing person, even an overly mental one. What you can definitely be sure of is that you think too much and talk too much. Communication is the foundation of your life, in some moments, its source. Put you under lock and key and take away the phone - you will not last long without damage to the psyche and physical well-being. Therefore, it is worth taking a closer look at those men who are not against communication, but speak in doses, but simply prefer to be listeners and only sometimes summarize the flow of incoming information. Such a partner will surprisingly harmoniously complement and cheer you up. Of course, you are looking for an intellectual, what to talk about with an uneducated person, not greedy for knowledge? Moreover, a man who will quickly go into emotions and feel more than speak will not suit you. You can talk about anything, immediately spinning the topic up to 1000 likes per post, but it is difficult for you to discuss and describe feelings, because you are too mental. So look for a man - a listener, but very logical and down to earth.

Pay attention to how your chosen one imagines life together, because you are not the most devoted and zealous hostess. Your home is filled with friends, phone calls, and a collection of little souvenirs you've brought back from all over the world, but your refrigerator may be empty. You do not like being told about your duties, you miss them, although you can pretend for a long time that this is important to you. Therefore, it is better to immediately agree that unnecessary requirements for order, food and family traditions not for you. Look for a man who will understand and support this.

CANCER WOMAN

You are the most family sign of the horoscope and that is why you need a man who is not easy to trust, and who will become your soulmate forever. Your main value is safety. If it seems to you that this is the basic need of every woman, then you are a little wrong. Of course, a woman has a lunar nature, but still, the need for security is very different for you and for the Aries woman. Your family is vital to you, but you are so afraid of betrayal that you often run away from the crown. Because you need a man reliable as a rock, strong as a beast and kind as a father. By the way, in a man, you really tend to look for paternal protection, or vice versa, to patronize him unnecessarily, easily assigning the maternal function to yourself, becoming both his mother and wife. The main thing is that your man should be your protector and a very congenial person, you will probably be pleased if he is an authoritative figure, you tend to make him such in your couple and contribute to the growth of his success in society. The main thing is not to dissolve in it and do not forget about your personal space.

Your home should always be satisfying, peaceful and very comfortable. So, you need a man who is not scandalous, patient and very loving family. But with a gentle person, you will quickly acquire fears for yourself and for your children, and if he is also a little lazy, you will not notice how you become the only breadwinner in the family. Be sure to pay attention to how your chosen one feels about money and his own career, he must want to move forward and be confident enough not to break down and scare you. His attitude to finance should be even, but with a touch of greed. That is, he should not be prone to squandering and thoughtless spending.

LION WOMAN

You are a woman of royal blood, or at least habits and expectations. Love for you is an important and very serious topic, because your chosen one must be as good as you are. Perhaps the topic of personal life is not as important and selective as yours for any of the signs. There is a reason for this, you must be 100% - appearance, lifestyle, social status, creative activity- all this should cause admiration and even envy of others. It is clear that a man should also be an object of desire not only for you, but for your entire environment, and maybe the city, or better the whole country. You are drawn to successful men with the prefix "mega", cool, in some ways very narcissistic. But this is not about bad guys, but rather about a very self-sufficient and slightly eccentric man. You are attracted to men who are independent and a little cold. You love courtship and gifts, love the scale in such attention, but victory over men of this type is especially pleasant and joyful for you. Life together should consist of holidays and creativity for you, in your case, the routine kills feelings and commitment, so do not try to find yourself a conservative patriarch, you will quickly be disappointed in life with him. Look for a modern man, moderately independent, who is looking for a partner not for borscht, but for moving forward together.

You will be a wonderful couple to a man who has been building a career all his life and is obliged to have a woman “both in a feast, and in the world, and in kind people". You know how to keep a face and play along with your chosen one, even if there is no consent, but there is great respect for him. You are not easy to win, but you are very devoted to a person, if you nevertheless made a choice in his favor.

VIRGO WOMAN

You know how to be very critical and just as evaluative. At work, this is probably why you are appreciated. There should be critics in the team, so you will enrich any activity with your very detailed comments, but in your personal life this can interfere with you. Moreover, you are for purity, both physical and moral, trying to do everything according to the rules and not go to any extreme, you often give the impression of a sterile person - no emotions, no passion, no vices. So you expect a purely irrational man, although you are unlikely to admit it. It is clear that it is very difficult for you to come to terms with someone else's illogicality, but you have a whole carriage of causal relationships, why do you still need the same quality in a partner? Only a deeply feeling and somewhere very vulnerable person will understand your soul. No, I'm not suggesting you to be the chosen one. I offer you a person who will accept your nature as you have it, will not retrain you and even more so reproach, but will patiently instill in you compassion and flexibility in approaching judgments about other people, simplicity in relationships and easy joy from trifles lives that are an annoying factor for you. It is also useful for you if for a man it is very important to serve and sacrifice himself for the sake of you or your joint plans. Only such nobility and compliance can melt your heart and confuse your mind.

You deny yourself in many ways in life, you are in a hurry to do more, serve your work, save money, buy an apartment, a car, but you do not have time to rejoice. Your man should be a man of a wide soul, be able to have a good rest and also work diligently. But he spends money much easier than you, otherwise your life will never find a place to travel, beautiful outfits and exciting adventures.

LIBRA WOMAN

There should be a lot of friendly communication in your life, your doors should always be open for acquaintances, for colleagues. You love society, the public. Do not tolerate loneliness and do not tolerate silent interlocutors. A man must love all this too or be not against this lifestyle. It may very well be that you will not have the desire to stay at home, you are always drawn to go somewhere or go, which means that a man should support this, in no case leaving you alone.

SCORPIO WOMAN

Do you need passions or quiet joys family life... The fact is that you are a person of extremes, you need both, because endless tragedies will tire you, and a quiet life will lull you and deprive you of creativity. Yes, it’s not easy with you, you constantly demand that there be a new turn, another transformation - separation, and then a passionate reunion, cooling, and then a sizzling penetration into each other. Not everyone can withstand such a pace, but there are such daredevils, there is no doubt about it. You need a man who is mature and very risky. Logic should be a priority for such a man, but he should have a weakness - a risk, noble and calculated. Perhaps such a man may seem too predictable for you at first, but this first impression is no more. In fact, an important component of such a person is the heart of a real adventurer, but prudent and very reasonable. Love for your chosen one will be an important and very intimate matter, you expect passions to blaze inside your bedroom, but you don’t like publicity at such moments, so you need an accomplice, someone who will have the same needs as you, but outwardly be calm and even impenetrable.

In general, you must go through all the difficulties and difficulties together, and it is important that your man really changes after each fateful turn. You do not understand people who remain the same all their lives, hold on to their beliefs, do not respond to change. Your chosen one should be a deep, but restrained person and very well in control of his feelings and experiences. You like to play with your man a game of secrets and secrets, so that his silence and impenetrability will only arouse your interest and feelings.

SAGITTARIUS WOMAN

You are always in a hurry somewhere, you have a lot of things to do, you want to learn a lot and get to know a lot in life. You are certainly a little adventurous and do not like a calm, settled life. Give you adventure. If you expect that I will marry you the same adventurer as you, then in vain. Let's start with the fact that you definitely do not need a conservative who has chosen his sofa and the program "Wait for me" on the country's main channel. You will forgive your dad, but not the chosen one. You need a mobile person, there is no doubt about that. He should easily respond to your craving for travel and excitement, but he should still not be too addicted and even a little boring, cautious. Only such a person nearby can save you from a wrong step, the risk of which is very high with your temperament. Your logic is not easy female, it is far from the very meaning of the word. In your picture of the world, everything is completely clear and consistent, but for others you are an absolutely inexplicable phenomenon. That's exactly why someone should take the main work of being rational on themselves, let it be your man and let it be easy for him, because it's familiar. And the news and the most creative ideas will remain only your prerogative and you simply have no competitors.

You are so fast-paced and always passionate about something that it is difficult for you to focus on everyday affairs. Your chosen one should be able, without being too zealous, to return you to the family, to yourself and to your family responsibilities. Sometimes you just need to fry someone's potatoes and watch an old comedy on a cozy couch, enjoy the simple things and catch yourself thinking that your most best person next to you here and now and this is where real happiness lies.

CAPRICORN WOMAN

A business girl like you needs a reliable rear and sensitive care. Despite the fact that you feel sorry for yourself a little, you have an iron character, inside you are like steel. You are certainly one of the most patient signs and know a lot about marathon races, but while you are running, fighting, holding defense and attacking, your heart demands that someone understand you, accept you and see you as a weak being with the right to make a mistake. You need a man who is kind and sincere. Too soft-bodied you will very quickly bring to complete despair and fall out of love, you will get such bruises about a very hard one that you don’t want to repeat the experience at all, so you should look for a middle ground. The external regalia of a man are not important to you, although you do not tolerate parasites, his hard work and devotion to the idea of ​​\u200b\u200bfamily and marriage are much more important to you. A man should be much more involved in family affairs than you. You learn to build love, and at the same time a family, gradually, sometimes going too far in your desire to be an authoritative figure among your relatives. Sometimes it seems to you that no one loves you at all, your man should celebrate and support you in such moments, demonstrate his need in your society and the importance of your presence in his life. Love is an important and very difficult feeling for you, it would be nice if your chosen one was a man of a big heart and a subtle soul.

It is important for you to be weak, even dependent. How can this be learned without a partner? But the partner must also be a person who understands that you are a warrior, but under the armor there is a lot of unspent love and warmth, the main thing is not to frighten you with rudeness or coldness. You need a man-father, but without moralizing and parental tyranny. You should be loved completely and trusted very much, and only a psychologically mature man can do this.

AQUARIUS WOMAN

Does anyone know how dear your freedom and independence is to you? Does any man realize how valuable your privacy is to you? But this does not mean at all that you do not want a partner, do not expect that one .... You are probably in the most difficult position for a harmonious relationship. After all, it is very important that your partner be as freedom-loving and independent as you are, but at the same time have a need for your society and respect your opinion. It will be very important for you not to rush into the choice, it must be right, otherwise you can beat off your interest in partnerships for a long time. A man must be very mature psychologically, wish for an independent, friendly woman who has an unconventional view of relationships as a partner. It is great if he no longer needs parental care, does not suffer from traditionalism and does not see in a woman the creator of beautiful borscht and herring under a fur coat. Look for an intellectual, a little selfish, very responsible, respectful of his decisions and committed to his choice. Oddly enough, freedom should bind you, everyone should have their own business, their own personal space, and everyone should be interested in the personality of the other. Conversations, dialogues, knowledge, discussions and similar hobbies - this is what will be the material of your foundation.

PISCES WOMAN

Your sensitivity and emotionality certainly create difficulties for you. Sometimes you completely withdraw into yourself, and sometimes you all dissolve in those around you, living in their interests. It is difficult for you to understand what you feel in a single minute - a bottomless ocean of emotions different quality and intensity is contained within you. You are very amorous by nature and very trusting, this confuses men and repels you a little. It is important for you not to fall into dependence on the feeling that you have for a particular person. With your excessive irrationality, you need someone who will point out to you in time that you have passed certain boundaries and you are no longer environmentally friendly either to yourself or to him. Emotional stamina is important for your man, and there may even be frustration, although you will not tolerate a too callous person around you. Your chosen one should have a well-developed logic, but he should be able to stop analyzing everything in time and just calm you down kind word. Your man should have a very specific goal in life and see ways to achieve it.

This guy can be seen from afar. The "male lover" is independent and daring. At the same time, he manifests himself as a gallant gentleman, knows how to behave next to a woman so that she feels like number one. Women immediately pay attention to the "man-lover." He is afraid of obligations and avoids them. It is easy to scare him with the words "wedding", "child", "parents", "future". He will be delightful in bed and can be a very pleasant conversationalist, but he will never allow you to claim his freedom, and you don’t need to.

If you choose a "male lover", then you accept the terms of the game, when everyone is for himself. He will not go to change your wheel (he has a lot of things to do, and even if not, you will not know about it simply because it would not occur to you to ask him about it, because there are special services). More than anything, he cares about himself. If today is your type, then we will add only one thing: a relationship without responsibility is an irresponsible relationship. What can happen? A “male lover” can “go into the fog”, disappear for no apparent reason, without any explanation, not pick up the phone. You will never know what really happened. What else? Attachment can happen that will push him away very quickly.

The test will reveal your true needs and desires. To do this, choose one of three colors: green, lilac, orange. Make a decision immediately, do not think for a long time.

So if you chose:

Lilac

First of all, in men you are attracted to energy. However, if we talk about long-term relationships, then a too active partner will quickly tire you. You yourself are very energetic, therefore, if two people-fireworks come together in the same house, it will not seem enough to anyone. This is overkill.
However, and passive, too calm men don't suit you. One of the main criteria by which you try to choose a man is his external attractiveness. Also, the chosen one must be a creative person. Not necessarily professional. The main thing for you is that he thinks extraordinary. And he was romantic. A dreamer, but not a groundless dreamer - this is your man. You will be able to support his undertakings, therefore it is with you that talented person there is a chance of recognition.

Green

If you chose this color, then by nature you are a conservative, a calm person. It is important for you that the satellite can provide comfort and stability, be able to set goals and achieve them. Your ideal partner is a man who stands firmly on his feet, confident in the future. Maybe, he is not very romantic and attentive, but decisive and reliable. His whole life is planned and laid out on the shelves. You may find it boring at first. But look at the situation from the other side. After all, such a man is almost impossible to take by surprise. With him, prosperity and peace reign in the family. He is a connoisseur of beauty. But the main thing is that his life partner will definitely not count a penny. With such a partner, you will obviously feel secure and truly happy.

Orange

You are a bright, charismatic person, so you need a companion who can appreciate your originality. You need a smart man who knows how to make decisions, take responsibility and insist on his own at the right time. For "orange" women, it is especially important to feel a reliable rear and support. Wordplay, allusions, beautiful compliments and gestures - these skills should be perfectly mastered by your soulmate. Without a doubt, the chosen one must be a bright personality, to match you. Since the "orange" ladies are not interested in gray, ordinary men. Get ready for a hectic life full of stormy passions. But only in such an environment will you feel the fullness of life and feel on the "crest" of the wave.

Imagine a man you would like to be around. What kind of man do you need, how does he look, how he behaves, what qualities does he have? Answer the test questions as if the imaginary chosen one was already with you.

The most important thing in a man is...
A. Tenderness, care.
B. Masculinity, strength.
B. Sexuality, passion.
D. Understanding, simplicity.

Describe a typical date with your partner.
A. Walk in the park, holding hands.
B. Bowling or shooting range.
B. The best date is at home, in bed.
G. Visiting the cinema.

In bed your man ...
A. Affectionate and gentle, takes into account your desires.
B. Rude and self-willed, but in moderation.
B. Tireless and full of passion.
G. Always asks what exactly you like.

An outsider begins to flirt with you in front of your chosen one. What should be the reaction of your boyfriend?
A. He will be offended by you, because you encourage this flirting.
B. Get into a fight with an impudent pester.
B. Flare up and blast both of them.
G. Will not do anything - you trust each other.

Who should take the first step towards reconciliation after a quarrel?
A. A man, because it is easier for him to compromise.
B. A woman, because a man is too proud to take the first steps.
B. The one who first cools down.
D. What difference does it make who is first! The main thing is as soon as possible!

Should a man share his problems with a woman?
A. Must, because there is nothing worse than closing in on yourself.
B. No, he's a man - let him decide them himself.
V. Yes, but not all, otherwise it will resemble a rag.
G.Of course! After all, a man and a woman are first and foremost friends.

Your man tells you he doesn't know who Gogol is. What will you say in response?
A. "Well, let me tell you who he is, and we will read his books together."
B. “Well, don't care! The main thing is that you know how to use a screwdriver.”
B. "It's not that important, we'd better check how good you are in bed."
G. “Do you know who Gogol is? Come on, march to the library!”

How do you feel about the fact that a man from time to time rested somewhere without you?
A. It's bad, because the two halves should always be close.
B. Normal, but only in a male company!
B. No way! I know him - he will immediately pick up someone for himself!
G. What's wrong with that? A man should be given freedom.

Your man uses obscene language in conversation. Is this allowed?
A. No! I will beat on the lips for every bad word!
B. Yes, it's a man...
B. Only if in a fit of passion.
G. From time to time it is possible, but if it becomes frequent, I will ask him to follow the speech.

How should roles be distributed in a family?
A. A woman as the mistress of the house will always be a little more important.
B. Of course, the head of the family is a man.
B. The man is in the first roles, but the woman must also be a strong character.
D. Fifty-fifty. Only in this way can harmony be achieved.

Summing up

Majority A

You like gentle and romantic men who know how to surprise with a surprise and sing a serenade in the moonlight. With such a gentleman, you feel like an eternally young girl, whom they never stop caring for. It is important to pay attention to whether, in addition to feigned romance, your chosen one has truly masculine qualities, otherwise you will have to shoulder the burden of family life. Are you ready for this?

Most B

A brutal male is the ideal that you draw in your dreams. You won’t get romance from him, but with him you feel like behind a stone wall - safely and securely. What you should pay attention to? Firstly, to ensure that the brutality of your man does not turn into cruelty. Secondly, so that you yourself do not relax, turning into a faceless housewife. Otherwise, the man next to you will become uninteresting.

Majority B

You are looking for a gentleman who will cause a storm of emotions in you. You dream that the passion will never fade between you. But does it happen? Alas, not often. So think about what else is between you and your chosen one, in addition to vivid feelings. After all, a couple of years will pass, and they will be forced to give way to something more mundane.

Most G

With your chosen one, you want to be friends first and foremost. Imagine how you will help each other, share everything, endlessly talk about trifles. You can share household chores among yourself - so that no one is offended. Just keep in mind that such a man will have the right to shift some of his tasks onto you. “Deal with the rent, please,” he will say one day. And you will have to deal with everything on your own.